Hi Birder,
You – and your wife – are clearly going through so much. This is so tough for you and I wish that I could help.
Do you have any friends or relatives who could assist you? The only other thing that I can suggest is that you contact 0808 808 00 00
There are two obvious areas of questions.
Why is the myeloma so aggressive?
One reason could be that your chromosomes may be ‘messed up’ (or to put it more technically, you may have chromosomal abnormalities). This happens in around 20% – 25% of cases, and would make your case high risk. There are several different kinds: mine are t(4; 14) and +1q. The more abnormalities, the higher the risk.
What will the treatment be?
This is pure guesswork, and I am a patient, not a medical professional, but it would strike me as strange if you were given similar chemo to what you have had already. For example, if you have had lenalidomide and that hasn’t worked, I would be surprised if you were now given thalidomide (which is similar).
One recently approved chemo is elranatamab. It is a bispecific antibody treatment (there are alternatives: teclistamab and talquetamab). They work in a completely different way, and seem to be pretty effective in high risk cases. There is a discussion in the Treatment section here about how things have gone so far for patients on elranatamab.
As I said, all this is personal guesswork. If you could get access to your NHS medical records (maybe via their app), they should contain more info on what is going on.
Regards
Rabbit