Hi Maureen
So glad to hear the news!!!
It is important GP know they are getting it wrong!!
Yes you can not do it all,only your best,this Myeloma can take a carers health away as well ,you are in for the long haul,so allow yourself some down time.
I am so glad Ian is getting to gym,see if they have a small foot cycle he can use,even weights to build muscle in upper torso,this will help in his recovery,as weather improves make sure he is taken into an open area even if he is in bed,look around you to see what's possible.,young Tom would call it pro active I would call it the norm,you have the best interest at heart for Ian.
Life might end up different,we can not see the future,but we can adapt with it. love Eve