Hi Jean And Frank,
I will not tell you not to worry,because you will,but if you are unsure of anything ask the nurses or if you think about something once you come home,ask on here,there are enough people on here,who have all gone down that path.
Remember Jean,after about six days,old clothes you can throw away,tell him not to get embarrassed,these nurses who look 15 have seen it all before,and don't be surprised if Frank is a little tearful towards the end,as the ones who tend to hold it all in, it makes the realise how vulnerable they have become.
You know Slim and my thoughts will be with you both ,and I will try to get on with the scrabble Jean.All the best wishes,soon it will all be over,and on to the next learning curve,how to live with remission. Love Eve