Hi Pedro.
Nice to hear from you, and I would be very happy to be your friend on here. I am also one of the Myeloma peer buddies who speak on the phone or on Zoom with those living with Myeloma, especially newly diagnosed ones. If this is something you would lie to consider, you can refer yourself for the service via the website.
I was diagnosed in 2019 when I collapsed after having what felt like being smashed in the back by a sledgehammer.I didn’t know at the time, but that was 2 vertebrae suffering a wedge fracture and collapsing. That was due to the Myeloma causing Kidney failure and I also a tumour on my spine, as well as other complications. Due to the kidney failure (GRF 4%), I spent 12 days in ICU on emergency dialysis, and a further 5 weeks in hospital!
A few months later, I had a stem cell transplant and went into partial remission for 3 and a half years, but then it came back, so I was put on high-dose chemo to try to control it. That worked, and for the last 18 months, I have been on a maintenance dose of Lenalidomide, which is controlling it well.
I am leading quite an active life, and make the most of it that I can. I regularly swim, ride my mountain bike and motorbike, and have been able to return to active duty in the local Coastguard Rescue team. For me, it is a case of recognising and accepting what I can no longer do (Like running, which I used to enjoy), but finding things that I can do and making the most of them!
Myleoma is incurable, but doesn’t mean that life stops, and you will find a way of getting the most out of life that you can.
Please keep in touch.
Kind regards, Tony