Good morning, Graham,
I am happy to share most information publicly, but I don’t know exactly what you would like to know. For context, my husband was 68 when he was first diagnosed, and it was just pure luck that the GP decided to do a blood test and send it to the hospital because he had suffered a bad back for literally decades, and was just seeking more effective pain relief.
Within 24 hours of the test result he was being phoned by the hospital asking him to come in the next day for a biopsy and MRI scan.
So VTD treatment began the same week, but after the first cycle (which was very effective in reducing the paraproteins), they had to stop all the medication because something had caused a bad skin rash over 80% of the body. After a month, a new treatment was resumed without the Thalidomide*. Then a break over Christmas. Then yet another treatment. So it took from August 2021 until April 2022 to get the paraproteins down below 10, which was what the Consultant was aiming for prior to Stem Cell harvesting and Transplant.
So during those 9 months we managed to visit our children about three times, staying in a self-contained house or apartment. Unfortunately we had to be mindful of the fact that they were in work or in university, so very exposed to people with Covid.
*We discovered eventually that Thalidomide was not the culprit. Turns out that he is allergic to a type of antibiotic.
Sorry for rambling. Hope some of this is useful!
Lili