Hello Myra
Welcome to the site,
You have listened to the doctor,s what do they say!!!!!
My husband is the person with Myeloma,and he has damage to his bones but no compression on the spinal cord which is a good thing.If he was in danger of compression he would not have much choice.As for pain yes he is in pain,and has strong pain relieve,his hip plays havoc with his walking.But in the grand scheme of things,he would rather put up with pain and pain relieve,than take on another problem.Eve