Hi Ner
Sorry Tom but I think Ner should really do her homework on this,if you go to off topic into Stans post on coming home ,there is a post from me there.!!!!,save me explaining again.
I can see we're you are coming from Tom,in terms of extra time,but you do have to think of the quality.plus on the down side if you look at Helen who was on maintenance and look at Slim who was not.Helen only got a few more months than Slim.
I know this does not apply to everyone,Helen and Slim were just unfortunate in there Myeloma is more complicated.
It has to be your mums decision ,but please go into Myeloma beacon forum, plus go back on old post with Revilimid ,and then you can make your own mind up. Eve