Hi Roger
I do think it is much harder for those around us who care about us than it is for the patient her/himself. I hope you know that you can also access support from the specialist nurses, MacMillan and Myeloma UK as her son.
Please do try not to worry – no use you being sick too!
Could you maybe go with her to the consultation? I've found mine not too worrying, but I can't say how my friend found them – she accompanied me each time. She's quite a worrier too. We both found them a good source of information and an opportunity to ask questions, which if left unanswered could mean more worrying. DO ASK ANYTHING!
Best wishes for you and your mum.
Jet x