Newbies here.. Worried.

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    dollydream
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    Worried about 76 year old hubby starting chemo on Wednesday.. LENOLEDAMIDE.. I think it is. And Dexamethasone…. Plus another… Prob adding in Cyclophosphamide. I am so worried about the side effects.

    #141361

    Debs
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    Hi there. I found that with revlimid, that the side effects weren’t too bad. I did find my neutrophils dropped which meant that I got poorly a bit more but that was more when I had it as maintenance rather than when I had it with cyclophosphamide and dexamethasone – i didn’t really have many effects at all like that.
    I know a lot of people suffer from the Dex. It can make people quite like Jekyll and Hyde characters so try not to take anything your husband says personally – he won’t mean it – unless he’s being nice of course!! It also can cause major issues sleeping But I find that if I take a couple of sleeping tablets on my Dex days and one the day after, that helps me no end!! Get him to talk to his consultant about it.
    Really hope that all goes well for him and that the RCD regime works well for him.
    Just ask if you have any questions 😊
    By the way, whilst I’ve had a transplant, I was diagnosed back in 2009!! Relapsed last year and about to have second transplant but doing really well if that gives you hope??

    #141362

    Debs
    Participant

    Hi there. I found that with revlimid, that the side effects weren’t too bad. I did find my neutrophils dropped which meant that I got poorly a bit more but that was more when I had it as maintenance rather than when I had it with cyclophosphamide and dexamethasone – i didn’t really have many effects at all like that.
    I know a lot of people suffer from the Dex. It can make people quite like Jekyll and Hyde characters so try not to take anything your husband says personally – he won’t mean it – unless he’s being nice of course!! It also can cause major issues sleeping But I find that if I take a couple of sleeping tablets on my Dex days and one the day after, that helps me no end!! Get him to talk to his consultant about it.
    Really hope that all goes well for him and that the RCD regime works well for him.
    Just ask if you have any questions 😊
    By the way, whilst I’ve had a transplant, I was diagnosed back in 2009!! Relapsed last year and about to have second transplant but doing really well if that gives you hope??

    #141363

    posull2
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    Hi Dollydream. I’ve been on Lenalidomide and Dex for eight months (as a second line treatment) and agree with everything Debs has said. It has pushed my ‘numbers’ in the right directions and kept them there, and the fact that this is done at home, in tablet form rather than having to attend hospital for hours each time, is wonderfully liberating.
    You say you are concerned about side effects; to be honest, I have had several, but they have all been small, manageable and worth it for the positive effects of the medications. Hand and feet cramps are not uncommon, but have been infrequent for me. A quick application of a hot water bottle gets rid of this fairly quickly. Fatigue is an ongoing factor, but it is hard to tell whether this is due to the meds or the myeloma. I have also picked up one or two little infections, but they have been easily treated with antibiotics. I am generally a bit achy and slower than I used to be, but then again, I’m getting older! In general, I find Lenalidomide to be a gentler treatment than my first line of treatment (Velcade).
    I have found that the key is to turn into something close to a hypochondriac; any new pain or concern, no matter how small, gets relayed to the haematology team in case it is something they need to address. Remember, they can and will alter doses and frequency of medications if they feel it will help.
    Please don’t worry too much about the side effects. Keep your team informed and, if your husband responds anything like I have, any side effects will be mild and manageable.

    #141364

    dollydream
    Participant

    Thank you so much.. That’s really reassuring honestly. We started the regime today.. He has bucket loads of pills to take, and we were given a chart to record them.. Really useful. He had his first lot of Dexa at 9.15…and is now snoozing lol! I hope he sleeps tonight. Please may I keep in touch! Xx

    #141365

    Debs
    Participant

    Of course you can. Either here or I’m happy for you to email on gascoynedeb@Gmail.com.
    Good luck.

    #141366

    posull2
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    No problem; I’ll keep an aye on this thread.

    Best of luck.

    #141368

    dollydream
    Participant

    Well we’re 3days in, and the only things to have happened are one bout of hiccups.. Dexa…. And an awful lot of snoozes. Eating well and sleeps all night! So no insomnia at all.. Yet!
    Unfortunately he has memory loss, so finds all these new tablets really confusing.. But I think I have it organised, so fingers crossed. Blood test next week. This is a wonderful forum. Thank you!

    #141381

    kayle
    Participant

    Hello all, newbie here. Diagnosed two weeks ago. About to start chemo with the triple rev- edX and cyclophosphamide. My only concern ( well, immediate one!), is that I’m starting chemo but no- one has mentioned a stem cell transplant. Either self or donor. Can a transplant be performed after chemo? Family are really concerned…

    #141382

    Debs
    Participant

    Hi there.
    I wouldn’t worry too much – often chemo is the induction for a transplant. I don’t know your situation but donor transplants are more common with aggressive myeloma (I think!)
    Your best bet is to make sure you ask your consultant Next time you see him…or if it’s worrying you, call the hospital and speak to him/ myeloma nurse specialist? Don’t sit at home worrying as they may have a plan that they haven’t yet shared.
    You could also talk to the info line?

    Good luck.

    #141383

    kevin
    Participant

    Hello Kayle

    Sorry to hear your diagnosis. Yes the stem cell transplant is done after the chemo if you have one. It will be down to your consultant so next time you see him you should ask the question. I have had 2 SCT now and they were done a few weeks after my treatment finished. I have just finished treatment after my second relapse but did not have a SCT as I believe they only give you up to two.
    Best wishes
    Kevin

    #141384

    kayle
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    Thank you both, Debs and Kevin. Really appreciate your very quick responses. It’s good to know they can still perform transplant after chemo. I did email my nurse but had no response. I’ll be seeing the consultant next week. Feel better just knowing. What a year this has been….I’ve never felt the need to join a forum, and this is the first time I’ve done so. I’ve got a partner and friends and family, but often feel very alone. Good to know you’re out there…

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