Hi Pepz,
<p style=”text-align: left;”>Very sorry to read about your Dad’s diagnosis and I wish you and all your family the very best at this difficult time. I think “support” means different things to different people but given it is all very new for you, a good place to start might be to read some myeloma brochures so that everyone has chance to understand at a high level what you are facing. You will quickly find out that myeloma can affect individuals in very different ways but I found these brochures to be a good support in trying to get my head around things at an early stage. Myeloma UK has a good brochure, Macmillan and other blood cancer societies also have good brochures. Beyond that, signing up to these forums (as well as others like Macmillan and Anthony Nolan) helped me in sharing experiences with those going through similar things. I was also given the name of a nurse specialist at the hospital who was a great point of contact in the early stages, answering questions and pointing me in the right direction. There are also lots of good counselling services out there if you feel you would benefit from this as well. And when all is said and done, I found the best support was just knowing that my family were there for me. I don’t underestimate how horrible the initial diagnosis is but just being there for one another and talking was a good way to start to get my head around what was happening.</p>
I hope this helps in some way and please don’t hesitate to ask anything further.
All the very best,
Greg