Hi lynn,
Obv’s we can only speak from our own experiences and everyone’s is diff.
I’ve had 2 sct and they worked well for me but I am alot younger which will defo make a diff to the recovery time! As for your lives getting back to norm, I thk you’ll have to accept that there will be a new type of norm but and manage it diff, but as his recovery gets better the new norm won’t seem so bad but it’s the time factor for healing that I thk your finding hard to adjust too. My treatment now has put me in recovery mode and it takes it’s toll…esp on our partners too! Try to ride the wave as it will eventually get better.
Good luck
Daz