Hi John
You do not give much info on your dad age treatment and so forth!!!!!
So it’s a bit hard to reply????
I can say when you have Myeloma you just want to get on with treatment,people react different to treatment even to the point of treatment being changed!!
Your dad asking for a month off means he is having problems find out what the treatment is and the problem!! Ring Ellen or Maggie,number at the top of this page and they can help!
No one can reply without more information,this is not a quick process,and I would say some times it’s better to approach things slowly specially if Dad is not going for SCT.
Ellen will be able to give advice and send you booklets to give you more understanding.
I wish your Dad and family a good journey on this roller coaster with all it’s highs and lows. Eve