Hi Potterman.
Looks like your post has been overlooked which is unusual.
I personally haven’t been on VCD though I’ve had several others ie. CDT, PAD, DTpace, Revilimid and Pomalidomide which is my latest treatment. Only Revilimid and Pomalidomide have had a meaningful response for me and have managed to keep my myeloma stable. So I’ve been on treatment, drugs, since diagnosis for over four years now. I even had to stop Zometa due to ONJ (osteonacrosis of the jaw) so I’m pretty much the opposite to your partner.
You don’t give any details about your partner so it’s hard to offer any advice so that maybe why you’ve had no replies. I know my circumstances are entirely different but I just wanted you to know posts are read and questions usually answered.
I hope everything continues to go well for your partner.
Every day is a gift.
Andy