Dear Jean,
I am so sorry to hear that Frank has been suffering such pain, and that you have had the worry of seeing him go through it, there is nothing worse than seeing your partner struggle with awful pain and not be able to help. I hope he is feeling more comfortable now and has some good pain relief to fall back on if he needs it. One slight word of warning, when Steve was using codeine for painrelief when his back was giving him grief he ended up with the most awful constipation, which really exacerbated his discomfort. We tried to adapt his diet to help but in the end he found movicol the most helpful. Being less able to move about down to the pain did not help matters either.
I do hope that both of you are feeling better and you can really enjoy Christmas with all your family, i know they will be with you very soon,
Much love Mari xx