[sdcanaryParticipant]

Hi Everbody,
Please bear with me I’m new to this forum and MM.
My father told me about six weeks ago that he has been diagnosed with MM about 3 years ago. Whilst I realised his memory was starting to fail I had put this down to his age of 80,he also has a swelling of both calfs (I’m getting really upset already) might have to come back later

[sdcanaryParticipant]

Sorry about that.
My dads a stoic and proud but he’s a good old stick and I think hidden it well for a while. Recently hes obviously decided and asked me to help him put his affairs in order, which to be honest is a struggle as well as upsetting, the myeloma website has been invaluable and I have found our local support group, although dad doesn’t seem too keen, as he says “I like to do things in my own way” which he does and he used to be great but now this dumb dog comes into play and he struggles with technology and also I fear taking his tablets on time, he knows its affecting him the other day he remembered tablet but wasn’t sure he’d recorded it in ledger then wasn’t sure he took it.
I’m not sure what stage 1 2 or 3 hes I’m concerned about his benefits he seems to be paying a fortune in council tax.
I get us through this but I have to say it’s quite overwhelming at times especially as I understand time is limited.
I’m sorry if this has come out with bad grammar and bit haphazardly,but thank you for listening.

[sdcanaryParticipant]

Sorry meant to say damb fog

[davidainsdaleParticipant]

Hi Sean

Sorry to hear that your father has myeloma, it seems that you have your hands full just now.

Here in the West Lancs and Merseyside area there are plenty of voluntary and professional organisations who could help and give advice, hopefully the same in your area.

I suggest that you contact your nearest Macmillan centre who will know all the right people and who may be able to help. Your Cancer Specialist Nurse at the hospital should also be able to offer advice.

Hope this helps

David

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