Thankyou for all your comments, they are hugely appreciated.
Badger, thankyou for the name, we are already in the process of drafting an initial email to Dr. Kwee Yong on the back of your advice, with a view to getting a 2nd opinion and on the best course of treatment.
Angelina, It's actually for my Dad who in the last 4 weeks has been through the shock of discovering this on the back of just a routine trip to the GP for a pain he had in his leg. The initial anger has turned into hope with a view to getting the best possible treatment going. My Mom has been doing some reading from a lady in America who suffers from Myeloma and has made it her personal goal since being diagnosed to find the best treatments possible. On the back of reading some of her information we have gathered the names of highly recommended trial treatments so we will at least have some counter questions to the ones that are initially offered.
Dai, thankyou for that, it's another hospital we will be looking into, along with the Newcastle Freeman Hospital which has also been recommended to us.
eve, that's a mistake we don't want to make up here, for something like this, at this stage of diagnosis, we want to use the time we have been given at this side of the treatment to find the absolute best place because no doubt at some stage, health will restrict where my Dad will be able to travel to.
Just also want to say I hope for all those who are suffering or are closely related to someone with Myeloma the absolute best, you never think you are going to be in such close proximity to such an awful disease but when you are, it quickly brings everything else into perspective.
Regards
Alastair