Hello gILL
What a shocked state you must be in it took me at least three months before I could come to terms with it I just didnt want to speak about it.
the phone line to myeloma uk is so valuable, there is a specialist nurse to talk to I found it such a help because you feel so alone when you go to the specialist take a pad with all the questions you want to ask, you never remember everything and write down the replys. Check with Myeloma uk
if there is a support group near you its so helpful to actually speak to someone who also has this horrid condition
Take care love Jo