As long as your husband can avoid infections the SCT (in my experience at least) is not that bad. When he comes home he will need to sleep a lot….I was having morning and afternoon naps for quite some time. The nausea and diarrhoea stay around for quite a while but both are manageable with drugs. Food will be an issue for some time as…[Read more]

I also wonder if being vitamin D deficient while living in London contributed to my myeloma developing.
Carol

Amanda I remember that feeling. Some nights I would have to sit for ages on the side of my bed before daring to stand up as I was so dizzy, not to mention weak. And I was also a very fit, healthy 63 year old before starting that treatment. But….after a few weeks off the drugs I did start to improve except that I still have some neuropathy…[Read more]

Hoping all goes well. If Ian can avoid infections it is not so dreadful. Yes a few days of nausea etc etc and a slow road to recover your strength afterwards, but so worth it to be drug free. I am coming up to 14 months in stringent complete remission and life is good…long may it last! Gym and swim most days and back to Europe for 3 months in…[Read more]

I had thalidomide with cyclophosphamide and dexamethasone for my initial therapy and after 18 weeks I was really suffering with the many side effects. Dizziness, muscle weakness, constipation, neuropathy (which I still have) leg cramps, night sweats and night time incontinence. In fact I think the initial therapy was worse for me than the SCT!

Carol

As soon as I finished the initial treatment of CDT with a good response, my light chains and paraprotein started rising again, so it was either on to Velcade or SCT. To me SCT was the better option and nearly 14 months later I am still happy with that decision.

Carol

It is just so sad to read these posts. Give your children time and help them to remember the good times they had with their dad. Such a cruel, unforgiving disease.
Carol

Your dad was always so positive, so sad to hear this news. He was just too young to die. This cancer is just too, too cruel. I am sure you have loads of lovely memories to keep you going.

Carol

I don’t know about B12 but I was vitamin D deficient for some years and wonder if that contributed to my diagnosis. No problems with vitamin D now I am home in Australia!

Carol

You will find quite a lot of people on here with kidney failure. The free lite test is the most important in your case as it will give you the kappa and lambda free light chain numbers, especially has there has been no paraprotein. Even more important is the free light chain ratio. Ask for all of these results…sometimes takes a week for them…[Read more]

Post traumatic stress syndrome is often a by product of what we have been through. Some find counselling helped. My move back to Australia and endless sunshine and surf have helped me deal with the depression I was struggling with after transplant in London.

Carol

Hi Mervyn
I know of people who have had 3 SCT’s but for me I was desperate to be drug free and the SCT achieved that. After I finished the initial treatment with a good response, my light chains started rising again so I would have been back on velcade (probably) straight away. Also I think it was better to have the SCT early on when I was still…[Read more]

First of all welcome and I know how you feel. I thought I was the fittest 63 year old in London till diagnosis! Sounds like you are doing really well. It is true the SCT lays you low for a couple of weeks and it does take quite some time to recover. But if you can gain a good remission and be drug free for a while I think it is well worth it.

Carol

Hi Gill
Good to hear from you. Bless Stephen…I guess he knew how much you would think of him as you used the sharpener. Do hope after the tears you picked yourself up and got on with living, as you know that is what Stephen would want for you. I sometimes wonder how my husband, children and grandchildren will remember me once I am gone?

Carol

As Tony said if your husband is mobile there is no need for you to be at home all day. I managed to keep doing everything for myself (I have mm) and my husband, except for the last 6 weeks of the initial treatment and a couple of weeks after transplant. Everyone is different I guess but I would not advise you to give up work.

Carol

Hi
Stay home as much as you can after you have the chemo for stem cell collection as it will damage your immune system. Even more so with the melphalan before transplant. SCT is not too bad if you can manage to avoid infections in my opinion.

Carol

Hi Stanley
You will only get shingles if you had chicken pox previously. No chicken pox no shingles! Luckily I have never had them so thank goodness shingles is not on my agenda. Were you taking acyclovir?

Carol

Hi Alan
The first chemo before collection is not as severe as the melphalan. I still think you need to be careful and stay at home as much as you can cos it will knock your immunity down. Usually once your counts drop with the melphalan before transplant you will become neutropenic and be at great risk of infections.

Carol

Unfortunately it may mean more chemo to get them back into a normal ratio. Light chains can clog up kidneys so make sure auntie is drinking plenty of water…..2 to 3 litres I was told.

Carol

Hi
You need to ask for the light chain ratio. Unfortunately if it is out of normal range it would indicate that your aunt has relapsed. The light chains as well as the paraprotein are both measures of the myeloma activity. The consultants like to have both in the normal range before transplant.

Carol