Gill replied to the topic Help…Is there anything on here about grieving? in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Hi Roz
You could try making a list of things that you would like done eg.When children or grandchildren come round get them foraging in the loft for those photos. I am sure that they will cause some tears but they will bring back some lovely memories.
The photo on here of us looks so jolly as Stephen pinched my bum just as the shutter went…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 13 years, 2 months ago
Goodness Min for British Gas to send you a bouquet must mean you were realy up and running with your rant. Good for you.:-)
I have no idea of the pain and heartache you must be going through that will come quickly enough, but I do know that I welcome challenges in the face of pain. Somehow (for me) it gives me the strength to carry on.
Gill replied to the topic Velcade induced Neuropathy in the forum Side-effects 13 years, 2 months ago
Bl***dy NHS
Don't get me wrong I am very grateful that we have it but how frustrating it is at times. Stephen is still covered by our private health care. For how long we have no idea. We get copies of the invoices so have some idea of just what the treatment costs.
Stephen gets no different treatment than anyone else but it is always on…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic Got on the forum at last!!! in the forum Newcomers 13 years, 2 months ago
Cannot help with the hospital as we are in Southern Kent and covered by Kings College London. Just wanted to wish you the very best of luck Gill
Gill replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 13 years, 2 months ago
Happy Birthday Eve.
Min I had forgotton the paper bag and coin trick (it was probably a florin or so to start with:-) ) I am sure that "Grandad's Magic will be with all of you for a very long time. Much love from Gill xxx
Gill started the topic Older People Don't You Love Em?. in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
OK I am a fine one to talk. Now in my 62nd year I am no spring chicken. My Mother in Law is 85, and I organise a supermarket delivery for her and an order for some frozen meals from a specialist food company (they are a bit like a more up market frozen meals on wheels service.)
She told me today that she would like to have some more of that Cok…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic Help…Is there anything on here about grieving? in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Roz
Please don't feel you should not post how you feel on this site. I could not add anything to Mavis' post She was so eloquent.
Take care Roz. Love from Gill xxx
Gill replied to the topic I LOVE in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
I LOVE the fact that I put up this idea.
C'mon you lot let's not stop xxx
Gill replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 13 years, 2 months ago
Sarah
Your story of Francecsa waving to her (in our home) Pop broke my heart too
Gill xxxx
Gill replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 13 years, 2 months ago
Sarah
Your story of Francecsa waving to her (in our home) Pop broke my heart too
Gill xxxx
Gill started the topic 9/11. in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
I am sure that we have all watched or read about the 10th anniversary of the thousands of deaths that happened on 9/11.
I was still working then. I worked in a project for homeless people. We took them off the streets and gave them a safe bed, tried to help them into work and the ability to get food and whatever else they needed.
I watched…[Read more]
Gill started the topic Fingers Crossed For Me Please. in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Nothing whatsoever to do with mm but if you read this before 9.45am please cross your fingers that I don't make a complete idiot of myself.
I am going back to French classes. Stephen and I both did them for a while and Stephen dropped out fairly quickly (His excuse was South East London Buiilder struggles with English. My reply was, and still…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic That subject no one wants to talk about in the forum Carers 13 years, 2 months ago
Love the idea of "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" at your Dad in Law's funeral Bridget. Stephen wants nothing and the only way I can deal with it is to say "If you went first" He wants his ashes smuggled into France and sprinkled on the little patch of land that we own over the road from our house.
Come on Min keep posting. We all need…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic About as ff Topic as you Can Get -2 in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Firstly message to Bridget How much "happy juice" had you had before thinking that Terrapin included ARY?:-) 🙂
Secondly, many of you seem to be cheating asking your other halves 😉
Pay attention now I could put terrapin as my word as we have been left with ATE, but I will not. I will struggle and come back in a minute.
:-/ :-/ :-/…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic Help…Is there anything on here about grieving? in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Dear Dear Min
I think Peter has shown you a sign. You signed your last post Minx He knows how naughty you are:-)
Love you quote "God only takes the best. Greedy bas****"
Do keep visiting this site. You may get some solace from it but my selfishness knows that you will give advice and comfort to others. I am so selfish that I (obviously)…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic Help…Is there anything on here about grieving? in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
Hi Roz
Please try and push for a bereavement councelor I had a friend at work who did this on a voluntary basis. From what I could make out she was trained to allow people to be really angry and let their feelings out and move on with their grief.
I can remember being so angry with my dad when he left me (died) and then feeling so guilty…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic I LOVE in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
I am sure that I spelt frivalous wrong but I am determined not to look in my wonderful new dictionary. I'll just keep on sniffing it:-)
Am I not a bit too old to get an addiction:-S sniffing stuff cannot be good for you:-)
Gill replied to the topic surgery resulting from MM in the forum Newcomers 13 years, 2 months ago
Dear Sylvia
Unfortunately Gaye died
All the best Gill
Gill started the topic I LOVE. in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
You can put up a whole list if you like. A bit of fun because I am on a high. Daughter and whole bunch were here for the day mm? go hide yourself.
We dined out at the "eat all you can for 7.99" chinese. We spoke of lots of controversial subjects and loads of rubbish ones.
Their Staffodshire Bull Terrier was petrified of our 2 West Highland…[Read more]
Gill replied to the topic About as ff Topic as you Can Get -2 in the forum Off topic 13 years, 2 months ago
NECESSITY for all to find something to do with
ITY
PS EVE Photo needed It is like playing Cluedo in here you are the illusive Mrs Black
PPS Nothing to do with this but Stephen and I were trying hard to remember all the characters from Cluedo and trying to guess the year it was made (watching some inane game show)I was only a year out…[Read more]