A welcome from me too. My husband had his first SCT in 2008. He was one of the lucky ones in that, apart from the loo trot on a regulat basis, he got through it unscathed.
The neutropenic (sp) diet did not cause a problem as he did lose his appetite and even the special menu in Kings College Hospital was foul. Great staff, wonderful treatment but foul food. Well you cannot have everything.
When he came home I did wrap him in cotton wool a bit. Visitors were told "If you have a sniffle. Stay away" The first time we went out we went to a local restaurant for lunch. They have a huge area at the back of the restaurant that isn't used during the lunch period but we are quite regular customers and they were happy to let us sit there away from other diners who may have had some terrible lurgy.
Stephen was half way through his Skate in black butter with chips when I realised he was EATING THE SALAD GARNISH!!! "You'r not supposed to eat that" I said the reply was "OH bu**er that I am really enjoying it" He was fine.
Good luck with your SCT I hope all goes well and you get a long remission.
Kind Regards Gill