Hi Arlene
My husband was 53 when diagnosed in 2008. He had a SCT in the summer of 2009 and has been very well since his transplant and is in total remission. He is due to see his oncologist in a week or so and I always panic beforehand but other than that we get on with our lives.
He has damage to his spine that was caused by mm before the diagnosis but he still walks for miles every day (started with crutches, then a stick and now nothing)
When Stephen had his SCT I wrote a kind of blog/diary thing on the old site I think you can still pick it up on this link
http://www.myeloma.org.uk/Page.aspx?pid=280&messageid786=2890&tid786=459&dgs786=3
If not, if you are interested, email me at bodgeit2@aol.com and I will forward it to you.
Good luck to your dad I hope you all have a great christmas and that your dad can look forward to a new year with the prospect of a long and healthy remission
Kind regards Gill x