Well Min this is the time to find out!!!!you do not know what you can do until you try.!!!!
Dishwasher!!!! for a present,who was that for,any thing to get out of standing at the sink!!! my my Tom hang your head in shame,It,s nearly as bad as my hair removal gadget,its taken him years to live that one down LOL Eve

Now Christmas Wow what a time its great a lot better now we have 5 Grandkids, And to be fair its My Young Bride that buys all the Presents I know about the "Main present for them but all the Others I asked Elaine not to tell me what they are that way I enjoy the waiting and watching The Kids open up the ones i didn't know about Lol am just a big…[Read more]

Hi Lady's
And Poor poor Slim :-0

Gosh I wish I had said OK to the Healey Brow attack, now we are talking a Bobbit :-S Lol.

As for the memory loss I had? nay have it even still and my Laed Nurse tells me its Chemo Brain with a dash of erm I forgot?:-S you will have to slip Slim a sleepy tab to knock him out then video you trimming his…[Read more]

Hi Dai
The cost for Slim is topping £3000 as now in 8th month,but if you compare that he was in ITU for 10 days at a cost of £2000 per day its a no brainer.
Slims history is grandmother plus mother died of pulmonary embolism,his mother a year September age 85.
I have had some response to my complaint,went for start of 6 cycle today and H…[Read more]

Hi Everyone

Poor Slim,that,s what I hear all the time Tom,i always seem to come out the baddy,I just reckon he does not know how lucky he is being married to me!!!!!
but there again he can not remember it!!!! LOL.
the other day he asked to see the photo,s so my daughter showed him,and for some reason he thought he was standing up(we got…[Read more]

Hi Jet

First I have to say am neither but didn't want to just ignore this post 😀

Not sure what difference their would be by a sexual preference though (oh dont call me thick :-0 ) but good luck 😎

That Said Jet how are you doing these days? hope your doing well and keeping strong.

Love
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xx

Thanks Dai

HUMANISE (!!)

ISE next

Jean x

Hi Helen

Slims is a long story,so will keep it short he was on CTD myeloma trials, and three months on,after going to A&E on Easter Saturday and sent home,Emergency admission on Easter Monday 10 ITU with Septic Pneumonia and 22 over all in hospital.
he stared the trials again 2 weeks after leaving hospital,did 6 cycles only to find Myeloma had…[Read more]

Hi Amelia

I know it's difficult not to worry but franks protein went up from 21 to 30 (over months) and now down to 28. David is right, the doctors take a lot more into consideration. Frank hasn't had any treatment since he was diagnosed 5 years ago. Thank God.

Try and take it easy

Love Jean x

Hi Chelle
We all have days like that,because you get desperate for something to work, I must admit to being a pill popper ,mainly to keep my emotions under control,It cannot help your husband to see you so upset,so my advice is go and see your doctor,get some help,because you have to be the strong one at this point in time.
I am sure other…[Read more]

Hi Helen
It does seem worrying at first,but as soon as you mum starts the injections she will improve.
Slim had a mass of blood clots in lungs,no one realised as he did not get out of breath,plus holes from damage with pneumonia.He has been injecting himself for over 6 months now and we expect this to continue for some time.

If you put a word…[Read more]

Gosh Lol are all you Ladies ganging up on poor Slim (pluck im when asleep) but the best way to do the Brows is to wet them and comb them Upwards and trim the long bits off and their you have it a nice set of brows all tidy and neat 😎 and am sure Slim will love the new look 😎
But if you do go down the road of waiting while Slim is asleep can…[Read more]

Hi All

Funny Christmas presents – had a good laugh!! On our first Christmas as newly weds, we lived in South Africa. Frank told me I had to wait in as my Christmas present was being delivered. I was so excited – couldn't wait. At last it arrived – it was a deep freezer!! Talk about disappointed. When Frank arrived in he asked if I liked…[Read more]

Hi Carol

Yep I think we all know about the days weeks rollinginto one 🙁 its a shame realy but when that has happened we have lost a lot of the bad bits also 😀 and thats a good thing.

As for the Grandkids we decidied not to tell ours as it wont help them or us BUT they noticed when Granddads Just not right? they dont say anything till a…[Read more]

Oh Eve you made me (and still am) Laugh out loud aww poor Slim he he, I remeber My Transplant and that made mine fall out and one of the Nurses cut it short:-0 short:-S but it was still "Moth eaten" so when I got home the first thing I did was take the shaver to it and took it down to Raw Wood yep a male Sinead :-S only hair I had was Eye…[Read more]

Hi Sarah
I live about 40 min from you,and Deal is frost free,on are way to Canterbury this morning you could see frost in the small villages low down of the road,but otherwise this little corner of England tends to have French weather.

I am glad you are going to have all the family,its so important the first year,if your worried about the out…[Read more]

Hi Only me
Just to try and give you a little bit of support,i cannot help you as Slim has not had SCT,but am posting to say people who have been in your mums position,say it,s worth it in the end so hang in there,this post should take it back to top and more people might see it and reply to you.
Good Luck Eve

Hi Everyone
Well last night I did it, could not look at the moth eaten man any longer,so decided to get my scissors out,he moaned all the way through it,told him he was lucky I did not get the dog clippers out:-P
Have cut Slims hair very short to give it more body,he tells me,when he was a marine he never had it so short,think he is telling…[Read more]

Hi Carol
That,s wonderful news about your family,very hard on your daughter to make that trip,but she is so far away and the worry must be awful.:-S
My daughter could not get over how Slim looked so ill!!! but saying that has now put on 1st 8lb and looks so much better has his bad days when he tries to do to much,:-( but is OKish.
When Slim had…[Read more]

Hi Eve

Yes really looking forward to having everyone here. After all my moaning we had a beautiful sunny day today – a bit cold but nice to see the sun.

Enjoy your shopping!!!!!!! Will be thinking of Slim and saying a wee prayer for him. Hope all goes well.

Love Jean x