I love Christmas ? with all the boys and their families home together. I too, love holidays and travel ? especially cruising. Love a Saturday night on the sofa? take away and a bottle of wine!!Love James Patterson?s books. Love the series The Killing (original from Denmark ? sub titles ? brilliant) Better stop ? could go on for ever. Oh and…[Read more]

I Love My Wife and proud to say it :-D, My Young Bride's dog Charlie, I love My Work (and the money it puts in our bank) I love to see a well tended garden and good grass (with lines) but mine isn't:-S
I love all My Grandkids (warts an all Lol) and this site I love that, I Love My "Online Friends" from this site and others 😎

Have a well…[Read more]

Hi Roz

Am sorry I know you are still suffering, Am sure its no good me saying "It will get better" as am sure you know that, its the now the tomorrow and the month after that you need help with, Am sure a Bereavement Councillor can help and the road through that could be the Mac people or your own GP.

I hope you get some help soon Love and…[Read more]

Hi Sylvia

Am pleased our words were of a comfort to you:-D.

It wont be long before your glass is "Half Full" might even be today 😎 Pain must be a terrable thing to have day in and day out 🙁 me I only have a bit of discomfort on my right side, not sure what it is but Consultant tells me am still in remission so it looks like a visit to…[Read more]

Hi Amelie
The question,is a hard one,as a carer you will worry about it,is he doing to much?? but if he was at home would he be doing to much?,and the answer lies within his nature,his body his decision.
Slim my husband,the minute he starts to feel better,he goes over the top,thinks he can do every thing,you end up nagging,not helpful.
So now I…[Read more]

No excuse FLATULENCE LOL

NCE
Is there a smell round here.

Hi Sylvia

Sorry to hear its not that good for you on the "Velcade" but dont give up more can and will be done, I know it will get you down knowing that the response is not the one you wanted and hoped.

You are correct this site is for the Support just as much the Information.

Good Luck Sylvia hope your next lot works better.

Love and…[Read more]

Take good care of YOURSELF

ELF

Hi Gina

Pleased your Mum has started the treatment, I hope it runs smooth for her and the side effects are down to a minimum.

Love
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xx

Eve it feels like a well worn pair of shoes comfortable, but you young Ladies are more than welcome to pop in and throw in some gossip 😀 am sure Ted and I would love it 😎

Just taking a break from the New Kitchen I am fitting some Lino 😉 am sure I will regret it :-/ one slip of the knife and £70 has gone up the swanny :-S he he. then I…[Read more]

Is this becoming a men,s meeting point!!!!8-) 😀 🙂
Short and sweet no gossiping!!!!
What are you men like. LOL
Eve

Thanks Sharon

Will look out for that,has his MRI scan on Sunday,With Slim its very hard to tell how much pain he is in,never one to admit to pain just the fact he takes Oxycodone hydrochloride and cannot do without it,and still is in pain is enough for me.Never touched a pain kill in all his life,even when he had a hip replacement,,broken ribs…[Read more]

Dear Min

I wish your family a safe trip home, I also am very pleased to read that Peters Story went so well, save the good parts that you went through with Peter's Illness and throw the bad bits in the bin.

You know where we are for the support that we can give you please keep in touch and If you feel I need a telling off then please give me…[Read more]

Hi Amelie

I understand John's and every one out their who has MM for wanting to have a goal so as to get better faster.

I also had the goal to get back to work BUT My Consultant and the Cancer Nurse (who's husband used to work with me) told me I should not go back to my Job, its heavy Work and would mean stress on my back arms and shoulders…[Read more]

Hi Min
I posted on side effect when it should be here,loosing my mind that,s my excuse:-)
This has all been a wake up call for Slim,he is listening to me,and has said how it all bring s every thing home,Promises me in the future,he will do as i ask if he is ill,:-/ I know him well enough.i will still have a fight on my hands to get him,in to…[Read more]

Hi Min

I know you will get through this,Luck or some one looking over you having your son by your side!!:-)
Sarah was lucky to be able to bring her husband home to die,Peter was lucky in the fact that he new nothing about his death,you had to carry that burden,
We all know how stubborn men can be,and often that,s why we love them so much,It…[Read more]

I think we should all grow old TERRIBLY disgracefully

BLY

Trying my best Eve

hi Gill
Thank you for bringing the video to are attention,it is exactly what is needed,It is making that call is the hard one,sometimes as in Slims case there was no temperture,and his insistence that I was fussing,even having a doctor out,who looking back had know idea,!!!!

Staff told me later what we went through should not have happened.
I…[Read more]

Hi Sharon,
Thank you for all that information,have asked about pet scan today,nurse said she would inform consultant,thought it was a good idea,the consultant is very much a bloods man,I get the impression he works purely on results.
Slim has tumour on spine,plus lesions on shoulder blades and skull,they have a pet scan at the hospital !!! so…[Read more]

How's about KILOBYTE

So YTE next

Jean x