Thankyou so much for your reply and PM…not sure if I've figured out how to PM back yet I've just had a quick glance but I've finished a 12 hour night shift at a secure hospital and I'm heading South to collect my youngest daughter from Uni. My mum is not well at all, first signs were last year with shingles but that's hindsight now. I'm not sure how she would cope with Chemo but I know she wanted to try. She does have pain though, not sure why her bones are not showing signs of damage because she was extremely ill with hypercalcemia. You look on here and see people in their 50's admitted because their bones are breaking and they don't know why, it's an unpredictable illness.