Hi Chrissy
I don’t reply very often, but I do look!!
Myeloma is very scary when you first get it, and remains so, but I do think it is viewed as a treatable and controllable (but not curable as yet ) chronic illness.
Do not panick about the timescale, it does seem forever, but it’s ok.
However start shouting loud if you get increasing pain though.
I am truly appalled by your Gp, you must complain formally if you feel able. Not only do you deserve better, and an apology, but the Gp needs to learn about myeloma. (I was a gp for 20 years). Do it if you can.
Prof cook is fantastic, I was diagnosed in Harrogate 4 years ago by an ignorant consultant with no manners, so yes, I complained and voted with my feet and transferred to Jimmys, the best hospital in the world!!! Long waiting times in busy clinics, but so what, it really is a centre of excellence. Your body, your illness, your choice.
Ask any advice from this forum, there is a huge knowledge out there. Try to avoid Google. Ring the nurse specialists wish this website, they are great.
My snapshot is diagnosed 4 years ago following worsening back pain (my go misdiagnosed but I pestered for a scan) showed multiple vertebral fractures and skull lesions. Had 6 month tablet chemo then stem transplant, giving complete remission and perfect health till 7 months ago, now back on chemo again, steroid day today so I can’t sleep!!
Chrissy, it will be tough and you will have lots of decisions to make, but don’t make that journey alone. Good look with everything and honestly the your timescale is ok, again so long as there is no increasing bone pain, no extra damage will be being done during your wait.
Ask away and Good luck with everything.
Mike