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Hiya there..

I am really sorry to hear of your diagnosis but please don't lose faith. My name is Kerry, it's my partner Melv that has Myeloma. He is 39 years old.

Myeloma seems so complicated doesn't it? So hard to get your head around but there is so many treatment options as I'm sure that you have found today.

How did your appointment…[Read more]

Hi guys – Thank you so much for your messages. It really is overwhelming receiving encouraging messages from you all. Thank you – I am so glad I have joined this site.

I hope this finds you all well – lots of love and best wishes.

Take care Love Kerry xxx

Hiya Wink… Thank you for your message.

You are right, it is the damage that MM causes that is the really problem! I always say that if Melv just had Cancer to accept without the disabilities that it has caused, he approach it with determination and fight with everything he had. However, as he is slowly losing 'who he is' due to no longer…[Read more]

Hi Megan – Thank you for your message.

It sounds like you have both have it tough too. I'm sorry.

I understand what you are saying about the beg of the MM journey and we are so happy and positive regarding the PP levels, it's fantastic and a step in the right direction regarding the Myeloma. However, the damage that the Myeloma has caused…[Read more]

Oh Sue… :-(. I know that I haven't spoken to you before, I'm quite new. It's also my partner who has MM.

I often wonder *how* you do cope and accept that news??!! If I can be honest, I don't have any advise to give – other than love each other and make this time more special than you have any other.

I am so very sorry Sue…

Thinking…[Read more]

Thank you Mavis – I tend to agree I think. If you have MM..you have it regardless!

I hope this finds you well – take care xxx

Hi Eve

Thank you for getting back to me with that. I have read lots of literature and have sort of worked it out myself ( i think). I understand the process of MM and what it all entails – I'm a bit of a researcher and send myself crazy looking up this and that! I also ask for copies of the information and always take my note book and pen and…[Read more]

Hi Peter…

You explained just how Melvin is. He said if it wasn't for the inability to work or resume normal activities due to the spinal cord compression, he would be able to live quite a 'normal' life while on the Dex. However – he suffers such a come down when he stops…like you, he feels so tired, almost lifeless. Only waking to eat most…[Read more]

Hi Mike

I'm sorry that you are going through a tough time at the moment. It's my partner who is 39 who has Myeloma, and is also on the MXI trial, RCD. He is at the end of the 2nd cycle at the moment. I noticed that you go to the QE hospital in Birmingham. We live in Birmingham and Melvin will be having his SCT at the QE. What a fantastic…[Read more]

Hi Tom

I have another person helping me with it all so I'm not totally on my own. Although I complain for being stressed at the moment, I feel like I need to inject all of my frustrations and emotions into something productive…if you understand what I'm saying. I may regret it, it may exhaust me but I feel I need something to focus on other…[Read more]

Thank you for your message Jo. People always say that I am coping really well and sometimes I agree. It may be the false smiles and 'I'm fine thanks' that I often reply when asked how I am. The way I see it – I have to cope, I have no choice. Who else is going to look after everything..Melvin and the children? Just sometimes, like now – I just…[Read more]

Thank you for your message Andy. It's very tough for all isn't it? Life completely changes when something like this sets up residence in your life and future. We have been referred to a Counselor individually and as a family, so our three children and myself and Melv can go. However..we haven't been yet as the Counselor cancelled the past two…[Read more]

Thank you Helen..what a day I had yesterday! I do feel a little better today, although my moods are all over the place. Our twin boys, who are 11 years old have gone off for a little break with my mum. Suddenly my shoulders seemed to drop. We have a daughter who is 16 and she is still home with us but she is so independent. She is revising for her…[Read more]

Hi Sarah Jane..

It is my partner Melvin who has MM. He is 39 years old and like you had SMM and then one day went to the hospital to find PP levels had increased and he started Myeloma XI and also is on RCD.

Melvin is at the end of cycle 2 and I think he has coped quite well so far. Unfortunately he isn't working due to his L3/L4 vertebrae…[Read more]

Hi Eve – thank you for your message. I agree with you – I am grieving and I think going through each stage slowly. Today and right now I feel angry…the denial has been with me since 2010 when Melvin was diagnosed.

I hope you are well – take care and thank you again. xxx