Hi Everyone
I know what your talking about Bridget with computers,hated them when I was at work now I could not survive with out one.my daughters use to give me there old ones,bit slow but worked last year got my own lap top,this year I Pad,Slim uses that more because it,s not heavy and good for games.

I am decorating the bedroom at the…[Read more]

Hi Gill
Such good news you both must be very pleased,Stephen should be a little bit better on the lower dose of Dex,and this might be the time to have those conversations :-)I believe the kidneys can regenerate,so any damage can repair.One day at a time Gill and you will soon be in France again.8-)

Slim was trying to reduce his dose of pain…[Read more]

Hi Jo

Good to see you have got over your food poisoning,and back to your old self.
I get up to London occasionally ,last time to see Mama Mia with my daughters,unfortunately Slims has no interest in the theatre .

One of my Christmas presents are tickets to see Calender Girls locally in Canterbury in February,So a nice evening out for…[Read more]

Thanks Dai
The penny has dropped.
Slims tried to come off his pain tablets a few times plus since not being on chemo he has forgotten to take his tablets going to bed a few times,specially when he was on ant-biotics ,because he had to take them on an empty stomach and his other tablets with food,he is the one that controls his tablets,as he…[Read more]

Hi Phil
Thanks for the good wishers,cannot book a cruise yet,even though we were hoping for a last minute short cruise from Dover.Slim has not heard from Kings and we have a number of hospital appointments in line,if I could get some dates,we might be able to get away.we do need this break.

I am finding this remission is Like a new ball…[Read more]

Hi Dai
From the sounds of it i would agree with Janet,except Lee Marvin was tone deaf.
Think your self lucky you can sing,at family events after a few drinks,if I made any attempt to head for the stage to sing,it use to be a race to stop me getting to the mike,even singing in the bath is banned:-(
I think singing is an expression of happiness.…[Read more]

Hi Mandy

Welcome to the site,it must be worrying for you being so far away.One of my own daughters is in NZ,so have some knowledge of how helpless she felt although my husband,has me and our other 2 daughters.

I do not think anyone going through Chemo treatment has a good quality of life and many of the side effects,can bring you down to a…[Read more]

Hi Chris

Thank you so much for posting,it does give us some in sight,knowing we have to make this big decision ,it is early days for us concerning SCT,just trying to get any information concerning SCT,its almost like having to take a couple of steps backward to advance, with not knowing if it will be worth the effort
(if that makes…[Read more]

Dai

You are not going to like me for saying this,but in the big picture of things,it does not matter what you would like,because at the end of the day ,Janet will continue to live,how she chooses to do it, it will be a measure of her self being!!!!!,Sorry DAi.
Find your fighting spirit , if you cannot get on trials,ask to have the drug any…[Read more]

Dai I wish I could give you some sound advice,but the only thing I can think of,is if you reduce your water intake it must have an effect on your kidneys.

It is so wrong that you have to comply to a criteria ,were does that leave people like Slim,nothing shows in bloods or urine,I just know when things are not right,luckly I now have a GP who…[Read more]

Hi Only Me
good to hear the good news about your mum,it is amazing the way things turn round from someone being so ill,and then responding to treatment,its just finding the right treatment.:-)

I think it,s very important to be positive,and to try to lead a normal life as possible,every one has there down days,and as you say there is only one…[Read more]

Hi Val

My hubby suffers with his legs,not so much cramp or even PN, just very painful,they feel very hard around the calves,I massage his legs as much as possible to take some of the tension from the calves,plus walking seems to help,it seem his leg problem is more effected with the cold.
I will not tell you what Slim suggested,but it had to…[Read more]

Hi Michele

I can relate to your problem,as we are in the same position,at last we have remission,and waiting on Kings to see if my husband is suitable for SCT,his consultant says although very fit has had pneumonia which has damaged his lungs,so feels it might not be in his interest,but has told us to go to kings,they are the experts,so we…[Read more]

Hi Bridget
Do not understand it myself LOL loosing the plot I think:-P Eve

Hi Gill

Gill you should never feel like that,this is when you need this site the most,because it,s hard to talk to family about it,and most of us carers have earned are stripes with DEX.:-/

I am able to say to Slim is it the DEX talking or Slim and he does calm down,its a bit harder in public ,when he makes a remark that,s uncalled fore. I…[Read more]

hi Everyone
Can some one tell me what has Gary O Brien??????? Eve

Hi Chrissie
I am so sorry for your loss,I am also awake in the early hours wondering what the future holds,we never know what to do for the best, you just try to do your best and try to remain positive.

People who have been through the same thing will reply to you,and try to help you get through this awful time,just try to remain positive,and…[Read more]

Thank you everyone for your good wishers and advice on SCT.

Still waiting on letter from Kings.!!!

Slim stopped Chemo a week before Christmas and has not been well since,it started on Christmas day,and has gradually got worst,on his last blood test on the 28th his kidney level functions were just starting to rise,so more blood test this…[Read more]

Hi Everyone

Its now 2012,time goes so slowly when your young,but as the years pass they seem to fly,so my word has to be

YEARLY I know it leaves RLY

But it seemed to fit into the new year. Eve