Wow I can’t thank you enough for your reply, it has really reassured me, and helped me so much, this makes so much sense to me, I have already read some examples of people living with this and what has helped them and good stories so I will have them at hand if needed, but really take your point about letting him steer this, and being a cheerleader, I can do that, again many thanks, and all the best to you, 😊