Hi Stewart

My husband was daignosed in October at the age of 56 with MM. It has been a great shock to us. I cried continually for the fiorst 3 weeks. The doctors has given me vallium which I take when I need it. I stay strong when I visit my husband in hospital.

Do you live in Scotland as you are a hearts fan.

Maureen

Hi David

Ian is in better spirits and is eating better. His psinal wound is looking better and he is moveing his left leg and alos has movement in his left leg but his hands are weak.

I am thinking positively and we will try and have as nice a Christmas as possible. He is allowed a small glass of champagne. It will be very hard as this is…[Read more]

Hi Angie
Stumbled onto your message. We live in Dunblane and my husbnad Ian has been diagnosed with MM on 24 October. He had to have a spinal operation as his spine started to crumble when the steroids started attacking the tumour. He has had to return for further surgery to the Western General in Edinburgh as his wound is infected. He is…[Read more]

Hi Sue

I am still positive that there is light at the end of the tunnel. At the moment my husband is still in hospital as his psinal wound is still slowly healing. I am spending Christmas with my son, daugher in law and my 2 granddaughters. They have been a great support for me.

Have a nice Christmas in New Zealand and god bless

Maureen

My husand has partial paralysis as his spine started to crumble when the steroids started attacking the tumour. We do not know if this will be permanent but he was only diagnosed on 24 October and we have had to deal with the diagnosis plus a spinal operation. He had an infection in his wound and had to return for further surgery. We are now…[Read more]

Hi Tim

Thanks for your reply. Ian has had a course of CDT which didn't agree with him but he was switched to velcade with steroids which seemed a lot better but the chemo has now been delayed to help his wound heal.

Did you have an issue with walking after your spinal operation? Ian will need physiotherapy and rehabilitation.

Maureen

My husband was diagnosed with MM on 24 October after suffering with back pain since April. He has gone to the docotor on a few occasions and was referred to a specialist in July who advised him he was stiff and to have physiotherapy.He had physiotherpay for 13 weeks but he was still in pain. He then asked to be referred privately. The doctor sent…[Read more]

Hi guys – Thank you so much for your messages. It really is overwhelming receiving encouraging messages from you all. Thank you – I am so glad I have joined this site.

I hope this finds you all well – lots of love and best wishes.

Take care Love Kerry xxx

Hiya Wink… Thank you for your message.

You are right, it is the damage that MM causes that is the really problem! I always say that if Melv just had Cancer to accept without the disabilities that it has caused, he approach it with determination and fight with everything he had. However, as he is slowly losing 'who he is' due to no longer…[Read more]

Hi Megan – Thank you for your message.

It sounds like you have both have it tough too. I'm sorry.

I understand what you are saying about the beg of the MM journey and we are so happy and positive regarding the PP levels, it's fantastic and a step in the right direction regarding the Myeloma. However, the damage that the Myeloma has caused…[Read more]

Oh Sue… :-(. I know that I haven't spoken to you before, I'm quite new. It's also my partner who has MM.

I often wonder *how* you do cope and accept that news??!! If I can be honest, I don't have any advise to give – other than love each other and make this time more special than you have any other.

I am so very sorry Sue…

Thinking…[Read more]

Thank you Mavis – I tend to agree I think. If you have MM..you have it regardless!

I hope this finds you well – take care xxx

Hi Eve

Thank you for getting back to me with that. I have read lots of literature and have sort of worked it out myself ( i think). I understand the process of MM and what it all entails – I'm a bit of a researcher and send myself crazy looking up this and that! I also ask for copies of the information and always take my note book and pen and…[Read more]

Hi Peter…

You explained just how Melvin is. He said if it wasn't for the inability to work or resume normal activities due to the spinal cord compression, he would be able to live quite a 'normal' life while on the Dex. However – he suffers such a come down when he stops…like you, he feels so tired, almost lifeless. Only waking to eat most…[Read more]

Hi Mike

I'm sorry that you are going through a tough time at the moment. It's my partner who is 39 who has Myeloma, and is also on the MXI trial, RCD. He is at the end of the 2nd cycle at the moment. I noticed that you go to the QE hospital in Birmingham. We live in Birmingham and Melvin will be having his SCT at the QE. What a fantastic…[Read more]