Hi Sarah
This is a very difficult decision to make and takes a massive lot of thinking. My husband was diagnosed in 2006 with smouldering myeloma. I taught at the local university and loved my job. Frank was smouldering and although, sounds funny, was healthy. He didn’t need me around all the time. But I couldn’t concentrate at work, he was always on my mind, I even found it difficult to go shopping without him. I thought for ages about leaving but then our funding dried up and our Unit was closing. We were all offered other positions but I decided this was an omen and I took early retirement. I don’t regret it, as Frank was uppermost in my mind. I stopped seeing friends, going out and my life revolved round Frank. I was offered a position teaching young adults with problems I T skills. I turned it down. Now I regret not keeping on some of my teaching. Frank had SCT in March 2013 and is slowly getting there. Speaking for myself, I need something that is mine and nothing to do with Myeloma and I’m thinking of taking on voluntry work. It is a difficult and personal decision to make but after 8 years I realise that I was too quick to make the decision
I hope your husband improves and my best wishes to you
Jean