Hi Tony
I’m so sorry to hear that you to are going through this traumatic time, I am 42 and have four children aged 17,14,10 & 8. I was diagnosed on December 23rd and like you l felt a bomb had been thrown at me yet not gone of. I didn’t have to wait for the results of my bone marrow extraction for a diagnosis so it was such a shock to be told a t what l thought was just a blood appointment that l had multiple myeloma. My advice to you is do as much research on myeloma as you can,the myeloma web site is such a good web site and it’s so encouraging too.even the cancer research web site is good too, but like others have said some other sites stay away from.I’m going in hospital in May for my stem cell transplant as my body responded really quickly to the chemo and other meds they gave me, so try and be possitive which l know believe me is hard, but like me your wife is young and hopefully her body to will respond well to treatment.i wish you and you family all the best what ever the result of the bone marrow biopsy is. Xxx