Thank you all for your most welcome replies and kind thoughts. I am thinking now perhaps like most of you that maybe Mike my husband would still have had the SCT had he known the risks as we do see it as the chance of living so much longer and put the risks to the back of our mind. I suppose at the moment I want someone to blame as I am hurting so much but I know thats a ridiculous thought and nothing can bring him back even if the doctors had said they’d made a mistake. If Mike had not had the SCT transplant and maybe died 6 months down the line or something I would be wishing then that he’d had it so there is no easy answer. I think he was just very unlucky.
For Jacquie Coleman: Thankyou for your reply. My heart goes out to you as I know the pain you must be going through so thankyou for taking the time to reply to me. I am so sorry for your loss. This damn Myeloma!
