LiliB

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    lilib
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    Telling the kids – and telling friends in general – yes, that’s a good question. Someone should write a book on it.
    My older son is training in the medical profession, and has been absolutely wonderful in supporting me, and finding this website for me. I knew he would be fine and positive about the whole thing. My younger child, though, is tending towards the ostrich approach. I can understand that. I’ve offered to answer any questions, but got a straight ‘no’.

    Then there are the relatives who want to make it all about them… So for the past 5 weeks I have been very selective about to whom and what I say. It is a minefield all of its own.

    It has taken me about 4 weeks to process it myself, and be more comfortable talking about things with others. So I would say don’t rush yourself. I doubt if anyone will mind if you haven’t told them straight away. And if they do – well that’s their problem, not yours.

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    lilib
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    Hello Panda.
    Thank you so much for starting this discussion. I have been thinking about registering to join this forum for a couple of weeks, but your query has made me do it. You already seem very organised and clear-thinking about your diagnosis. My husband was diagnosed very unexpectedly 5 weeks ago (has had a bad back for years) and started treatment more or less immediately. I was in a complete whirl- and so was he, naturally. I realised that I needed to ‘get a grip’ to deal with the 10 types of medication, but I did a spreadsheet, and we are more OK about it now.

    You will be given the contact details of a Specialist Nurse, and ours has been very helpful – any minor worries and she is there during the week, or I can send an email, which she responds to very quickly.

    I hope that you will get answers to all your questions on your next appointment. It’s probably good if you can take someone along with you (our hospital allows this – actively encourages it) for the first appointment as they can take notes for you or possibly remember things to ask.

    I don’t know the answer about grandchildren. We don’t have any, but we are being very careful not to go to places with lots of children or adults – not just for avoiding Covid (both double-jabbed), but any other type of infection can be a problem when you are taking medication that suppresses the immune system. Even our adult children do not come and stay overnight unless they have previously taken a test and have avoided socialising.

    Good wishes to you for keeping well and active.

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