Hi Min
I posted on side effect when it should be here,loosing my mind that,s my excuse:-)
This has all been a wake up call for Slim,he is listening to me,and has said how it all bring s every thing home,Promises me in the future,he will do as i ask if he is ill,:-/ I know him well enough.i will still have a fight on my hands to get him,in to…[Read more]

Hi Min

I know you will get through this,Luck or some one looking over you having your son by your side!!:-)
Sarah was lucky to be able to bring her husband home to die,Peter was lucky in the fact that he new nothing about his death,you had to carry that burden,
We all know how stubborn men can be,and often that,s why we love them so much,It…[Read more]

I think we should all grow old TERRIBLY disgracefully

BLY

Trying my best Eve

hi Gill
Thank you for bringing the video to are attention,it is exactly what is needed,It is making that call is the hard one,sometimes as in Slims case there was no temperture,and his insistence that I was fussing,even having a doctor out,who looking back had know idea,!!!!

Staff told me later what we went through should not have happened.
I…[Read more]

Hi Sharon,
Thank you for all that information,have asked about pet scan today,nurse said she would inform consultant,thought it was a good idea,the consultant is very much a bloods man,I get the impression he works purely on results.
Slim has tumour on spine,plus lesions on shoulder blades and skull,they have a pet scan at the hospital !!! so…[Read more]

Hi Gina

Its sad and upsetting to see your Mum Poorly and it seems like its a constant waiting game? but it will be worth it 🙂
I am same as Eve, if you say me end of 2009 and start of 2010:: then see me now it shows it works 🙂

Good Luck and hope you have some help soon

Love and Hugs

Tom xx

Good on you Ted, Just dont show them a photo of Me or the museum might want to have me on display Ha ha.

Hope the cold is soon better 🙂

Tom

Hey Bridget

Soory am late in this post 🙁 just spotted it?

I do hope the Radio Therapy works for the pain as you have got so much faith in it to suffer the way you have me (am a wimp) I would be in that ospice before they even made the bed ha ha.

Good luck with it all

Love and Bug hugs ((())))

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxxx

Hi Gina
I have to say I do not think I would be waiting 2 weeks for treatment.Your mum must feel they have given up on her,I know i felt like that with Slim at one time.
If you ask to speak to your consultant,they should be able to arrange something even a telephone call,they usually get together as a team to decide treatment,so might be worth…[Read more]

Hi Gina

Sorry to read your Mum's not well.

I dont have any help for you re the Nodules 🙁 but as for the weight thing I was a Healthy 14 stone before I got MM went down to just under 11 stone? but after my treatment I am now (the consultant says) a Fat 14.11:-D and ye its a bit fatter than I was before the MM but my Zometa infusion can be…[Read more]

Honest Ted av bin their and its not too bad Ha ha

Hope your doing Ok 😎

😀 Tom

Hi Sally (hope your not asleep?)

Sorry you dont have any news on your Mum front 🙁 those folk dont move too fast do they.

As for your Dad I honestly know where he is coming from We have Five Grandkids Eldest is 8 years old and the youngest "Baby" Max is just about Seven Months old this w/end 😀 and I cant wait to see them I ask when…[Read more]

how about

PUSSYFOOT
Thanks Jean,much easier now.

OOT

eVE

Tom walks away blushing, but am sure you could, but i aint letting you xxx

Hi Gill
Its all so TERRIFYINGLY lol:-P

GLY

PS Can any one tell me how to get to the top of this list without using the arrow on the right hand side,is there a quick back to start ???????
Love Eve

Well you lazy people
how about RELAXATION

ION

Eve

Hi Sarah
If you live in a detached house go into a room and scream as hard as you can,it does work!!! then some deep breaths,and tell yourself you are not going insane!!!
With all your troubles life is going to go on,things will get better.Eve

Hi Alison
You have joined a good group who are just like you and will be there to support you,and offer wisdom and comfort,and in the middle you will find you will be able to smile laugh and cry.
It,s a bit of a shock to the system I would not have dreamed in a million years of posting on a site like this,but I cannot tell you how much it has…[Read more]

Hi Gina
As you know Slim has been very ill,his weight went down to 63kgs,it is now 66,which is great,do not let them take the easy option unless that is what your mum want,attitude of mind is a great thing ,your mum does not want to be a burden ,she has to find the will to live.
I think you have to ask them straight out about your mums lungs,if…[Read more]

Tom
We are lost with out you. eve