Hello Vicki and Colin,
It is life changing and for us the initial shock was quickly followed by two operations for Phil to fix his femurs, we have had one thing after another since the diagnosis but now things feel like they are more under control and we are starting to understand things more. Like you we had never heard of MM but we are getting on top of it. I still find all the jargon confusing, light kappa chains, bence jones, etc but I know that when I need information I can turn to this website and of course the discussion forum.
I hope Colin's SCT goes well.
Megan