rebeccaR replied to the topic my husband is well so why is it all so difficult? in the forum Carers 10 years ago
Hi, I was diagnosed just before my 51st birthday and did the chemo/SCt and now in remission and drug free. My personal opinion only – what got me through it all was being adamant it would not impact on my life anymore than it had to so I continued with the gym/sporting activities throughout all treatment and as soon after SCT as possible. Having…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic New to all this in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 1 month ago
To Sct you need to be stable and as close to the normal range as poss.IF this is not achieved with the initial chemo then another type may be added to achieve as low as poss numbers – perhaps 100 or less.THere is the option of home dialysis and have read of someone on this forum who does that and has adapted his life well to it. REmission is…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic New to all this in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi Sandra, this cancer is a huge shock to everyone and it is a natural reaction for your husband to not want to know everything initially – I left hospital with no literature and said I would ask when I was ready. I made a pact with my husband not to look at the internet (he did, however, but never told me of his research and when I was ready I…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic New to all this in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi Sandra, Sorry you are here, MM is very difficult to understand and the important thing to remember is that it is a very individual cancer so when you read through literature etc always bear that in mind. If you go to the information section on this site there are lots of guides to help you understand this complicated disease. I was admitted…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Interesting article …. in the forum General 10 years, 1 month ago
Yes you are so right, I do feel tho it is a shame that we are not automatically helped with the armour to deal mentally with a cancer diagnosis. I have read a lot and thought I practiced “mindfulness” very well – “choosing” to react to things positively and choosing to do things that make me happy rather than get bogged down with things like work…[Read more]
rebeccaR started the topic Interesting article …. in the forum General 10 years, 1 month ago
The Myeloma Beacon is a wealth of information with many regular writers. This is a copy o f an article and is a perspective on the skills required to individually manage myeloma….worth a read
One of the most important things a myeloma patient can do is to seek care from a myeloma specialist, but that speaks mainly to the physical needs of the…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Worried in the forum General 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi Vicki, so really sorry to hear this about Colin – we are all routing for you both – and please don’t feel this forum is for positive stories only – as there are 2 sides to the coin we are tossing and it is useful for everyone to remember that. I feel in total denial of death as I live my life as normal but it acts as a prompt not to be…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic medication after transplant in the forum Treatment 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi – I was on various pills that stopped after a month or so and kept up the antibiotics for 3 months only. I was told I had to keep the antibiotics for the full 3 months as the melphalan destroys the lining of the lungs so you are susceptible to chest infections. Not had one yet now 18 months post SCT – fingers crossed. RE vaccinations some have…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Delay in SCT in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi Brian, I had my hickman line in a while pre SCT and worked up to the day I went in – never had any advise on not working whilst it was in but I did have it flushed out once a week wherease I think some other hospitals do it once a fortnight? Funny how different hospitals have different view points. Good luck.
rebeccaR replied to the topic Delay in SCT in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi – sorry to hear about the delay I know how hard it is mentally to brace yourself and gear up to it to then feel totally deflated. I had my SCT is Leeds and was told it would be 2 -3 weeks once I was on the waiting list after I had a hickman line in. I had to phone each day and it took 8 weeks and my consultant phoning that hospital also! This…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic bone pain after sct in the forum Side-effects 10 years, 1 month ago
Well my MM no.s reflect greatly on kidney function – if my light chains moved from 60 6o 40 I would get a bit more kidney function back – but it could only go so far. I averaged 26 pre harvest the harvest knocked MM back a tad and I went to 28. SCt took them to 30 with light chains in normal range and they are now averaging 32. I would imagine you…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic bone pain after sct in the forum Side-effects 10 years, 1 month ago
Hi Amanda, glad to her you are doing OK – I remember talking to you when diagnosed as we were very similar stories but my kidneys are now at 33 (just 18 months post SCT). I was hell bent on SCt regardless of risks but you do right to question it all with such a low kidney function. It took me 3 months to feel back to normal and get some fitness…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic bone pain after sct in the forum Side-effects 10 years, 2 months ago
Hi – Don’t know if this is the same as I have no bone involvement (I believe) but after SCt if I had a little walk my legs felt as tho I had walked 20 miles and this carried on for 3 – 4 months diminishing in time. Any little exercise on any part of my body gave the same OTT reaction – shoulders, arms. My feet really hurt when I walked on them…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic New to this confusing journey in the forum Newcomers 10 years, 2 months ago
Hi sarah, sorry to hear about your dad – how old is he and how was he diagnosed? I have not had VMp so cannot help on that front, however, please be aware everyone reacts slightly differently to chemo and so you may get all or hardly any of the side effects. MM is a very unique and individual disease. This is devastating, life changing news as you…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Good while it lasted. in the forum Treatment 10 years, 2 months ago
Hi sorry – only pop in now and again (I am just 18 months from SCT). !8 months is a figure from the US Myeloma beacon site, think I have read someone on here recently debating SCt following velcade treatment that 18 months extra was quoted by his consultant? Mine gave an average upto 2 years but there are those that get much more etc. All very…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Ian home after SCT in the forum General 10 years, 2 months ago
Fingers crossed all goes well for you now from this point on. So pleased he has got to this stage at last. Japanese proverb “Fall 7 times and Stand up 8”
Take care (Both of you), Rebecca
rebeccaR replied to the topic 3 months after treatment in the forum Treatment 10 years, 2 months ago
Hi Alan, glad to hear everything is progressing nicely and hope your 100 day test goes well for you. Sounds like you are keeping active and I think that’s the answer to a speedy recovery. After 6 months I felt I was back to normal fitness etc tho my bloods really took a very long time to look Ok. Be careful of a mental “dip” which seemed to hit me…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic life after the transplant in the forum Under 50s 10 years, 2 months ago
Hi Bernard, glad to hear you are doing so well – a very quick return to work – I could have gone back but chose to have 6 months off to focus on me/life/fitness as, let’s face it, we have been through a lot. I think it’s important now to not slip back to work focus etc and to consciously look at what you want out of life and a plan on how to get…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Possible transplant in the forum Treatment 10 years, 3 months ago
Hi John, had my sct xmas 2013 and currently still in remission – had velcade and dex for 8 months and got a vgpr. I was very gungho abut choosing sct even tho kidney gfr was 28% and making it higher risk – however survived and was back to full fitness/normal life in 6 months. If you are unsure there are some things you should explore which may…[Read more]
rebeccaR replied to the topic Side effects query in the forum Side-effects 10 years, 3 months ago
Hi – I had a rash all over develop and was on piriton (which didn’t get rid of the rash for weeks) and this was attributed to allopurinol – well known for such side effects. Never had a red face but have heard that dex can do this but then subsides – not heard it with the tightness but when I had dex by the teatime my face had puffed up quite…[Read more]