Hi all
Well I class myself as one of the lucky ones and yes i dont fear death but am not ready for it, do we as a Family talk about it YES we do but more of a FUN(if you can make it sound funny?) way so we can lesson the tension that having a terminal illness throws upon you.

I went to a Support group a fair few times but unfortunately we lost…[Read more]

Hi Jean and Frank
Well aint your Hubby doing well 😀 am sure (but my mind has gone awo;?) Frank is doing better than I did at same time ? you will have to ask Elaine Jean am sure she will remember Lol. but all through it i was up showered and shaved (its all you have to do to be honest) and dressed it made me feel better when i fell asleep lol.…[Read more]

Aww Dai

Bless its hard aint it?
But I will tell you what I have done over the years including during and after SCT (but I dont advise anyone else to do it, worked for me 🙂 )

All my life I have took the kids when they are ill and cuddled them saying "Come on Give us a cuddle and Dad will take your poorly away" Now that worked for our…[Read more]

Hi Sue and girls

I am pleased you and the girls have decided where to Scatter Michael's ashes, and Scarborough is a lovely place.
Will be thinking of you and the Girls on your special day.

Love and Hugs to you all

Tom xxxx

Hi Ann and pete
I have never been on "Morphine" but i know folk who have and still are 🙁 and the morphine itself gives problems but its needed, Pete will get better soon use Ice cream and Yogurt (i coudn't do the latter 🙁 ) it will soon get better 😎

Jean and Frank

Well I know how Frank feels re the food 🙁 I also stuggled to eat…[Read more]

Hey Ted
My you are avin a two and fro arn't you :-/
As for the chest problem I think all us MM folk have that I do ?:-/
I wonder what they mea about "The Immune system" being effected?? are they saying that us MM'ers cant have an operation as we might have a comprimised Immune system??
Dont let them shrug you off ted get in and ask away…[Read more]

Hi Dan

Well you are doing a great Job for such a Young man and am sure evry one is proud of the way you cope, but as others have said ask for help and use it you need space and time away from all of this MM stuff every now and then.

Such a lot to do and sitting exams also wow I am proud of you as well 😎 but ask and take the help as much…[Read more]

Hi Dai

Am pleased to read your Temp is dropping, I think its a MM thing ?? I get hot high ish temp every now and again but feel well in myself 😀 and am on Nothing and all bloods are good he tells me Lol.

Stay fit and be Cool Dai 😎
Tom Onwards and upwards x

Hey Jean

Frank sounds like me (but not the footy lol) I never used to ask I just let them get on with it 🙂 if My Mans Happy am Happy

Let frank sleep its going good Honest.

Love to you both

Tom an Elaine Onwards and Upwards xxx

Hi Helen and Garry

Your both welcome, the sickness and trots was with me for a couple of months post SCT so not too much of a problem as long as you drink plenty Garry ???????????????????????? it will work out .

Stay well not be long now ????

Tom Onwards and Upwards x

Hi Dai

Good Luck with this one 😀 and am plesed the net found you albeit Late :-S , I went on Zometa in 2010 after my 100 day BMB after Sct and had them for two years.

As for the Fatigue well I have sort of starting to put mine down::

1) being less active since diagnosis

2) Just plain old getting Older :-S Lol

Dai its Ok to…[Read more]

Hi John and Dai

John you have been on Zometa for a fair bit?, I was only on it for two years in 2010 after my SCT in 2009 and was told thats enough ?

Dai yes i had flu symptoms for a few of the sessions it soon went, But i also would keep an eye out for your temp as it has been a bit of a problem for you.

Hope your all Ok

Tom Onwards…[Read more]

Hi Jet Well done and good Luck 😀 and if you need something for your slide show to make people realy Laugh go on my Face book and nick some photos of me Lol.

All The best and am sure you will do a cracking job

Love Tom Onwards and Upwards xx

Hi Vicki and Colin
Am pleased you get a smile from my posts and that makes me Happy ????and it's just common old nuts am afraid ????

Love Tom Onwards and Upwards xx

hey no tracking am here :::::: tom.lappin.5

Aww I cant remember if i was cold and shivery? to be fair Jean but I do remember my room being cold all the time anyways 😀
But if Elaine (the young bride) woke me up for Football I would kill her (sorry Elaine xx lol) am sure you can tell I dont do footy 😛
Its started now Jean one day at a time dont worry too much just both Relax and let…[Read more]

Hi Sandie

Sorry your Mum is going through a rough time, I cant help on this one am afraid just wanted to send My Good Vibes.

Love Tom Onwards and upwards xx

Hi Eve
Yes you are correct and am sure you know i have heard the word NO many a time Lol
Yes and Pension people do give you more if you are ill and let them know.
6 til 2 is what i have done all my working life and prefer that shift more than the others 🙂

I will give it another think about it.

Many Thanks for all your Input's its been…[Read more]

Hi Dai

Baby steps is good if its working no need to rush it and cause more side effects?
As for you feeling Weak and Weary well I will be same on thursday but am putting it down to cold weather 🙁 roll on Spring 😎

Stay Steady

Love to you and janet

Tom Onwards and Upwards xx

Hi Helen and Garry

I was told that I should not have my dog and My Parrot (African Grey) and that was so as not to get in contact with the Poo from either 🙁 so Elaine took over cleaning Sam's Cage but in the end we gave him away to a lovely lady who says we can go and visit anytime we want (Both are well happy) still got dog cos Poo is…[Read more]