Rebecca,
Thankyou so much. Your message has really inspired me to push him more.
I have managed today to get him to phone the counselling service passed on by the hospital. This is a big step and promising.. I am also trying to persuade my Mum to go so they can get through this together instead of the tension they are both feeling.
I think I will contact his friends and see if they can get him to meet somewhere other than at home..
Lots to think about, thankyou.
I hope you continue to be well x