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Hi Chris

And am I pleased you joined us 😀 but sorry you had to 🙁

I am sure you will all cope with whatever is thrown at youe and Hubby (sorry you didn't say his name)

Dont forget we have you now so pull up the chair and ask say what you want, we are all here for each other 😎

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Hi Sylvia
And That we are (optimistic that is he he) me I dont think April is too far out? so the crossing to Cork should be OK

I used to hate the heat and sun and love the wind rain and snow But since getting MM you could throw me all the sunshine that you can because I defiantly feel the cold these days8-) so the sooner the better and hope it last at least as long as this bloomin winter :-S

Have a good un next week and wish you all Well 😀

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Hi Gaye

April 15th MMmm Interesting

I think it could be today 😀 well we dont need the sun 😎 do we? we just need to be a wee bit daft he he.

Photo to follow ha ha.

Weekend nearly over and a new week ready to kick off, hope you all had a great w/end and are looking forward to the new week 🙂

Have a Good Un

Love
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Oh Sorry to hear that Em 🙁 but am sure they will sort Dad out Ok.
Its a case of working out what works and what isn't working with us lot 🙁
Your Dad might just need his meds tweeking a little bit 🙂

I also dont like a fuss caused over me so think I know how your Dad will feel.

We have to take it one day at a time 😀 and it will work itself out 😎

So Take Care

Love

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xx

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Hi Em

Well I am sorry to welcome you to this site 🙁 but that said you will find it One of the best around, we have great folk that have got good advice to help you and your Dad through this one step at a time 🙂

Humour you cant beat it at a time like this and never lose it as I know it has perked me up no end over these last couple of years 🙂

Don't forget anything you or your Family need to know just ask, but I have to say all MM sufferer's don't react.nor have same treatment as its a individual illness.

As for me I have the "Owards and Upwards" Approach 😎

Good Luck to you all

Love Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Oh Gaye I think?? no I know we all have the "Onwards and Upwards" streak running through us 😀 , we just need to look at the Positive Posts that are on here 😎

And Many great Posts are from yourgood self Gaye and for that I thank you 😀

You make me smile you make me laugh and in this cold weather that a good thing :-S

Once again from one "Onwards and Upwards" MM.er to Another "Onwards and Upwards" MM.er

Lets stay out of the Closet 😎

[tomParticipant]

Just nipped in to say Hi and Good Luck

Tom xxx

[tomParticipant]

Hello Tanya

Sorry to hear about your Dad 🙁

But you know your Dad and am sure you know he will cope with what this darned MM throws at him.

Bridget is correct can your Half sister help out, have you tied the Social Service to see how they can help.

Good Luck and not forgeting yourself as it is too easy to forget about you and your time

Love Tom xxx

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Hi Clara
Well you have had some great advice on here 😀
And that only leaves me to say
Good Luck to you and your Dad with his forthcoming treatment:-)

Am sure it will run smooth

Love
Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Your More than Welcome Sylvia, and I also am waiting to have some proper sun on the back of my fat neck 😀

Not be long before we can all sit outside 🙂

Love Tom xx

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Hi Angie
A warm welcome to you, hope all goes well with your Mum's treatment.
You will know by now anything you need to know just ask 😀

Hi Clara

The same warm welcome is sent to you this is one of the best sites around so you will feel at home in no time 🙂

Love Tom xxx

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Hi Steph

Sorry you have had to join this mad Band of folk, but a warm welcome to you and yours.

I wish you and your nan all the best for this Tuesday.

love Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Hi Sylvia

You are more than welcome 😀 and WOW 70 😎 am sure you and Gaye would have a great time at Barts, and run the Dr's wild ha ha.

Have a Good W/end 😀 and roll on summer 🙂

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

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Hi Sylvia

Sorry to hear bout ur Relapse 🙁
I cant help re the op's as I haven't had any and hope to god I dont have to 😀 Just wanted to say Hi 😎

And Sarah, you are not [u][b]ONLY[/b][/u] a carer you are speical and needed 😀 as am sure Gordon could tell you.

As for My Young Bride (Elaine) she will tell you that she has been My Carer for over 35 years ha ha >:-)

And Gaye just had a picture in my mind of "so if you see an old crone with a stick hunched up and muttering obscenities to all and sundry," your words not mine ha ha, and that will haunt me for ages Lol xxx

Tom "Onwards and Upwards" xxx

[tomParticipant]

Hi Jenny

It must be a great relief to have your Dad in the Hospice, and even more now you know how good it is and the Nurses are great as it will take a bit of pressure of you and your Family.

As for Counseling I would say go for it, I was one that said "Oh I can Cope" and yes I can but and its a big BUT, when I had a chat with one and I was going to keep the Stiff Upper Lip well it failed me, the tears just came rolling down my cheeks, am I ashamed no not a cat in hells chance am I embarrassed, would I do it again Too true i would.

Good Luck to you all
and Love and Hugs sent to you

Tom xxxxx

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