Hi Pauline and Marc
Firstly may I say you have posted your post with Humour (and you will need it ) and if you and marc can still smile after what you get from the Consultant and the Macmillan nurse then you both will crack this MM lark.
As for me I have a good relationship with My Consultant and also his (my) Cancer Nurse, I don't do Numbers/scores or any tech stuff am on the wave of "If he is Happy am Happy" and that is not for everyone but it works for me 🙂
BUT BUT I have to say My Young Bride (Elaine) had breast cancer in 2008 and I wanted to know everything all the points scores and even how big the scar will be, so am a Calmer patient than I am as a Carer 🙂
If you want the Info TELL the consultant when you first get into the room 🙂
Love Tom Onwards and Upwards x