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  • #85898

    wendyduffield
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    Hi Ann and Pete
    ditto what Helen said, its really important that you know what to take on what day in the cycle and I am surprised that this wasnt explained to you or you werent given a chart by the haematology unit. I personally wouldnt take anything until you have this explained to you by the haemtology ward or your support nurse when they are open on Monday, oh hell just realised Monday is a bank holiday so try to get to speak to a doctor on the ward today, there is always a duty doctor there.

    Hope you get it sorted out

    Wendy

    #107485

    wendyduffield
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    sorry to hear this news as well, she seemed so positive and cheerful,thinking of her family and friends at this time

    Wendy

    #92566

    wendyduffield
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    Hi Carol
    Yes I am on face book – wendy duffield Manchester should do it, there are quite a few forum members on it

    I also discovered recently that there is a Multiple Myeloma Support Group on Facebook, the members are mostly from the US but it is quite good and if you are on facebook you can join

    Anyone welcome to be my "friend"!!

    Wendy

    #99222

    wendyduffield
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    Hi Tina

    its hard to manage all the pills isnt it especially with the shock of the diagnosis and everything else you have to take in. A pill box thing might help.

    I was assigned to CTD on the myeloma XI trial and had to stop after approx 1.5 cycles due to side effects of Thalidomide such as nerve damage and skin rash. However everyone is different and some people dont experience any major issues. The most common ones are fatigue and constipation, take sennakot or whatever laxative your doctor prescribes you even if you dont feel constipated. I wish I had followed my own advice as I had terrible problems!

    Good luck

    Wendy

    #92421

    wendyduffield
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    thanks Paul, how are you doing, you must be approaching stem cell transplant time?

    Wendy

    #92417

    wendyduffield
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    Hi all

    just to update on my recent 3 monthly blood test 7.5 months post transplant
    my light chains were within normal range and the ratio between them the lowest its ever been. Yippee!! Can breathe a big sigh of relief and relax for another 3 months.

    Best wishes all

    Wendy

    #99177

    wendyduffield
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    Hi eva
    very interesting story
    you are right we have a choice about how we are with our medical teams and how informed we wish to be about our illness. I think knowledge is power and am the latter like you. I ask questions, some very difficult ones for my consultant to answer and some very stupid questions too. We dont have an adversarial relationship, in fact I think we have a good one but I know if I needed to I could get a second opinion, when the time comes and she wouldnt be offended. So yes we do have the choice of getting a second opinion if we feel one is needed, it was certainly needed in your case.

    All the best

    Wendy

    #99175

    wendyduffield
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    HI Eve
    I am not sure, I thought it was just a UK trial but obviously results will be published worldwide.
    Regards

    Wendy

    #99173

    wendyduffield
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    I second that Dai, I do trust my Consultant to come up with the best possible treatment regime for me when the relapse comes but know she is tied by funding constraints.
    A worldwide best practice protocol would be fantastic. Surely not that difficult in this online world we now all live in. Surely not that difficult to link up trials internationally?

    I dont know if the treatment in the US is better or not. I was told by somebody I forgot who in the haematology unit that treatment of myeloma is better in the uk because when/if your insurance runs out in the states, you run out of options and are subject to their rulings on whether you get and what you get (not much different to NICE). I do however have a sneaking suspicion that the novel therapies and combinations of them that are current over there are because they make money for the drug companies who are pushing the

    #99162

    wendyduffield
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    Hi Eva
    What a horrendous time you have had before your relapse was properly diagnosed. Glad it is all on track now but I am horrified by the lack of care from your edinburgh doc, you are more forgiving than I would be,just as well you had private medical insurance

    Wendy

    #104456

    wendyduffield
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    Hi all
    I got a horrendous cold out of the blue a couple of days ago, copious amounts of snot! That is my third cold in 7 months post transplant. Is it becuase my immunity is building up again so like a child will just get everything that is going? Is my immune system forever compromised even in remission? I dont understand!! Can anyone throw any light on this?

    Wendy

    #99160

    wendyduffield
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    Hi Dai and Eva
    Dai thanks for starting this very interesting post and Eva for your very interesting comments.
    There is definitely a pathway from which there appears to be little scope for deviation. When I raised the issue of whether the SCT was the best option for me given the trend in the States against, my consultant nearly had a fit! She said it was the gold standard treatment and she would be negligent if she didnt give it to me. Well I have had it and am 7 months post transplant and in remission for the time being. I was initially on the myeloma XI trial and randomised to thalidomide but had to come off the trial after 1.5 cycles because it didnt agree with me, partly due to skin rash and partly due to severe neuropathy (not just peripheral). So guess what was offered to me off trial? Yep Velcade, known to have PN as a side effect. When I asked why I was being given Velcade they said that I might not get PN as a side effect with Velcade – I might react differently as it was a different drug. That I suppose was possible. I asked what else I could have and they said nothing else, just this and not revlimid because they wanted to keep that option open for further down the line. So I had two cycles of PAD (Velcade, Dex and Doxorubicin) and that brought my light chains down to normal range and my bone marrow to less than 10% and also gave me neuropathy!
    Just after my SCT I was recommended to have a mini allo transplant so I guess that is possibly thinking outside the box by my very pro transplant consultant. I made the decision to have it but ultimately a match couldnt be found. At that time I found out that I had a chromosomal abnormality called mono 13 which meant a poorer outcome and may mean I could relapse more quickly. Because of this, I asked if I could have revlimid as maintenance therapy but was told no as no defintite evidence that it prolonged remission (I think there is) and also to keep it in reserve otherwise running out of options but clearly the main reason is because there is no funding.
    When I was first diagnosed, I asked what was the best treatment for me but my consultant couldnt give me a striaght answer. I now realise why. Because its not about whats best for an individual its about what is available through NICE or dependent on whether I went on the trial. To be fair to her,she wouldnt be able to predict what treatment would work either as everyone responds differently and has different side effects.
    So I am not at the stage of first relapse yet and I hope I wont be for a long time but have already experienced the effects of the funding criteria.
    Eva, y0u dont say what treatment you are on since you relapsed and whether your Prof is recommending a second transplant, I would be interested to know.

    Take care all
    Wendy

    #92413

    wendyduffield
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    HI David

    that is great news, another sigh of relief and chance to forget about it all again. I have got my 3 month review coming up next week (7 months post transplant) and I am starting to get anxious as I am sure we all do. Hope you get better soon.

    Wendy

    #85755

    wendyduffield
    Participant

    Hi,

    Sorry to hear about your Dad. I am well aware how under the radar myeloma can be but even I am pretty shocked by the low standard of care given to your Dad, even if your GP was ignorant of myeloma, like you say he should have carried out some blood tests etc. I am sure that you wont be feeling like it right now but you could complain to his local primary care trust. You dont say how old your Dad is or which hospital is going to be treating him but I am sure he will now be in safe hands,and get the appropriate treatment underway to reduce the pain etc

    Wendy

    #104368

    wendyduffield
    Participant

    Hi all

    yes I think it could be menopausal Lorna or a bit of both as I know skin changes etc are common post menopause and itchiness does seem to be a comnmon occurrence post transplant. Its actually all getting a little better and my eyes arent quite as itchy or dry as they were.

    Regards

    Wendy

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