Hi
As has already been posted, sorry you have had to join us but welcome!!!
My husband has mm and has just had a 2nd stem cell transplant in dec, the 1st transplant lasted 6 years of more or less a normal life. I think i often bury my head in the sand as i am sure that really gordon will get better really!! Idiot!
His parents don't really (want) to understand and think he will get better soon ( 9 years later they are still waiting!)I find it difficult to have time for them as they have never offered any suppourt to us or our as they were at the time young children even my very crippeled mother wanted to do the washing when gordon went in for the 1 st transplant, she could not even do her own!Bless.
Good luck if you need to talk to someone the myeloma team on this site are very good, as is the macmillian service who you can get hold of though your or your brothers gp, he sounds aa though he is in denial which is another way of coping with this nasty, trouble is he will become exhasted.
best wishes
sarah