Hello Paul -sorry to hear you have been diagnosed at such a young age. There is an under-50's group run by Claire (Scotty) Scott which is separate from this discussion group. Trouble is I don't have her email address to give to you but hopefully there are others on here who do. Failing that I am sure Ellen at Myeloma UK will have it so contact her.
I know people find that group really helpful and I am sure you will benefit from it.
Good luck Paul.
Best wishes
Gaye