Hi there,
As the others said dont worry about posting, this forum has been a godsend to us as we have made our way on the good ole myeloma journey.
I can tell you a little bit about the Royal Marsden. There are two parts but generally the transplants are done in the unit in Sutton in Surrey. It is a specialist cancer unit and has an excellent name.
The haematology – oncology is headed up by Prof Gareth Morgan, who is one of the top men in myeloma treatment and research these days. Your dad will get some of the best treatment available.
However if you live in Devon, I can see that it is a bit of a problem having to travel all that way. I know that the Royal Marsden do provide some accommodation for relatives when visiting.
Maybe you could explore the possibility of having treatment closer to home. I know of people from this forum who have had treatment in Plymouth, Taunton and Bristol, and I am sure that the R,D&E would do it too.
In the meantime, good luck with finding a match, I am afraid I dont know anything about that.
Best wishes,
Mari xx