grief, is to short a word to describe the pain.

This topic contains 11 replies, has 9 voices, and was last updated by  mhnevill 10 years, 11 months ago.

Viewing 12 posts - 1 through 12 (of 12 total)
  • Author
    Posts
  • #108436

    johnandjunediamond
    Participant

    appologies for the little amount of input i and june were able to contribute to the forum over the month’s since june’s diagnosis this summer,

    the amyloidosis had taken residence much swifter than first expected,and coupled to the MM, was an overwhelming adversarary for my little princess,
    with unbareable sadness,and the heaviest of heart’s i have to inform you that june died on thursday evening 7th nov 2013,amyloids having attacked her liver/heart/and skin,
    i sit here now and watch my world implode as i attempt to make sense of this incredible injustice on such a wonderfull lady, my kindest regard’s for all the help and advice from fellow member’s over recent time’s…………..,regard’s john.

    #108437

    eve
    Participant

    Dear John

    I am so sorry to hear your news,unexpected is the only way to put it.

    You must be shell shocked yourself ? Some times with Amyloids it effects organs like the heart,Mari lost her husband recently the main cause Amyliods ,.
    It is incredible injustice ,your world has come crashing down,we all are aware that one day it is going to be us,I do not know which is worst having time to adjust to the circumstances or having hope snatched away.
    I do hope June passed peacefully,and you can take some comfort from that,
    My thoughts are with you at this sad time.Love Eve

    #108438

    tom
    Participant

    Aww John

    I am so sorry to hear that June has lost her Battle with Myeloma and I send my condolences to you and June's family and friends.

    I know nothing and I mean nothing can help you at this awful time but I have to say Just think of the good times Pre MM and am sure you both had family and friends that helped you have fun pre MM.

    Big Hugs John

    Tom

    #108439

    dickb
    Participant

    My wife and I were truly sorry to read your post and like Tom,there is nothing I can say that will help with your grief. Just remember the good times and keep her memory alive.

    All the best for the future – whatever it brings.

    Richard

    #108440

    bandityoga
    Participant

    John

    I am so sorry to hear that June lost her battle with myeloma.

    We all hope to keep fighting but never know what is round the corner.

    My condolences to you and your family.

    Maureen

    #108441

    johnandjunediamond
    Participant

    THANK YOU ALL so much for your good wishes,meanwhile i will remain a member i may be able to pass on my experiances to othier's,cheers, J.

    #108442

    Mari
    Participant

    Dear John,
    I am so desparate;y sorry to hear your news. I remember discussing amyloidosis with you as Stephen was diagnosed at a similar time, it seems to progress so very quickly and take away our loved ones with it's progress. It is 3 months tomorrow since I lost Stephen. I know that terrible pain that you are experiencing. I only hope you are surrounded by loving friends and family who can somehow ease your passage through this time. I have come to the conclusion that there is no way to make it better, we just have to live through it, and very slowly it some how becomes easier, I am still waiting for that. Be kind to yourself, and one day you will be able to remember the good times without too much pain. I am trying so hard still to remember the days before he became ill. I will PM you my email in case it would help you to talk about anything,

    Much love, Mari xx

    #108443

    san
    Participant

    I too am so sorry to hear your news, your continued help on here will be invaluable i am sure, but for now take care of yourself and love to you and your family San x

    #108444

    tom
    Participant

    John
    I am pleased you feel strong enough to stay on board I hope it gives you more strength in helping others here on this forum,I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for your strength.

    Tom x

    #108445

    Anonymous

    hi john
    i too send my condolences. i can only concur with the guys in offering you words of comfort. take care. love sarah xx

    #108446

    johnandjunediamond
    Participant

    thank you so much for the kind thought's
    presently wading thru document's and resolving issue's informing officialdom
    also arranging the funeral,the distraction's are however welcome and allowing me to function for the time being, the feeling of support is a source of energy i can tap into when low….thank's

    #108447

    mhnevill
    Participant

    Dear John

    Only just caught up with this sad news. So sorry you have lost your darling June and so young. There are no answers to the "whys" of such a waste. I do hope that June's funeral manages to be a fitting memorial to all she has given to you and all who knew her. Do try and take comfort in the words of the Service. Death never has the final word. What you had with June will always be with you.

    Cry, rant, talk to her photo, anything to get through these next days and weeks, but love, the love you had together, will be holding you up.

    God bless you and all your family.

    Love.

    Mavis x

Viewing 12 posts - 1 through 12 (of 12 total)

The topic ‘grief, is to short a word to describe the pain.’ is closed to new replies.