Newbie – my first post

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    tearose
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    Hello everyone.

    This is my first post on the forum. I joined because I am British, currently living in France but moving back to the UK in eight weeks’ time, in February next year.

    My husband was diagnosed with MM in August 2020. It was discovered totally by chance. He was being prepared for an operation for an unrelated condition (a liposarcoma in the abdomen which had attached itself to his right kidney. Both the liposarcoma and the kidney were removed in June 2020 and regular scans have shown a good outcome and no further problems). It was when the surgeon who carried out the operation was looking at the scan of the liposarcoma prior to operating that she discovered something with the L3 vertebra which didn’t look right. She arranged for an emergency appointment with the MM specialist for three weeks later. When we attended that appointment my poor husband still had 48 staples down his torso and a right thigh so full of epidural anaesthetic that he needed a walking stick to get around. Treatment for MM started that very same day with a bone marrow biopsy, an infusion of Aredia to protect the bones, and medication which included Revlimid, Dexamethasone and Velcade. Four months later, in the December, he was in hospital having a stem cell transplant. He had what the doctors called a ‘good partial response’ and has done well since. He has just been told that his monthly blood tests can be reduced to every three months. He is currently on 10mg Revlimid, Valaciclovir and Eliquis. We both consider that, although he is unlucky to have MM, he was certainly lucky that it was discovered when it was.

    We hope to move to somewhere in the Hampshire/Wiltshire/Somerset area of the UK. Our sons and their families live in Southampton and we need to be close to them. My grandson (23 in January) was diagnosed with leukaemia in 2015. He finished treatment in 2018 and we were all hoping he would get the five-year all-clear in March next year. Sadly, last month he relapsed and is now awaiting a bone marrow transplant so we can’t get home soon enough.

    I have no idea what to expect from the NHS when we move back. As MM is treatable but incurable, my husband will need to be able to access treatment when he needs it. We hear all sorts of stories about the NHS but it has been absolutely brilliant with my grandson. He was admitted immediately when he was taken ill and the tests began that same day. I am very grateful that it takes such good care of him.

    I hope I haven’t rambled on for too long.

    #147332

    znab
    Participant

    Hi tearose,

    Sorry to hear about your grandson, I hope his transplant goes well.
    I hear you about your concerns. I was diagnosed with MM in July this year and have been super impressed with the NHS trust looking after me. Still have reservations about my GP practice but they acted fast too once they saw my blood results. I hope that your husband is treated very well when he needs it and I’m sure he will be.

    All the best.

    #147333

    tearose
    Participant

    Hi Znab

    Thank you so much for your good wishes for my grandson.

    I am sorry that you have been diagnosed with MM and I wish you all the best with your treatment. It’s very reassuring to hear what you say about the NHS. Where in the UK are you based?

    My husband has had excellent treatment in France. His consultant is in regular contact with MM consultants in the UK, the US and in other parts of the world and they share knowledge and information which means that there is always research going on somewhere in the world which I find reassuring.

    I wish you all the best with your treatment. My husband has had ups and downs since he was diagnosed but he has done very well since his transplant so the ups and downs are worth it.

    Take care

    #147336

    tony642
    Moderator

    Hi Tearose, I am sorry to hear of your grandsons news, I hope he goes on to make a good recovery. I can only say that the treatment I have had on the NHS has been excellent.

    Regards, Tony

    #147337

    tearose
    Participant

    Thank you so much, Tony, for your kind words about my grandson, and for your reassurance about the care that you have received. I wish you all the best.

    with kind regards

    TeaRose

    #147338

    mulberry
    Participant

    Currently newly diagnosed myeloma patients are being given 4 drug induction therapy by NHS, which is world class therapy, and changes to the NICE protocol have improved 2nd line treatment options over the past few years. Although NHS patients are not yet given CAR-T therapy, the issues holding it back seem likely to be resolved within months. I feel reasonably confident as a patient that I will get access to world class therapies. I know we patients have excellent advocates in Myeloma UK, arguing our corner to have new drugs approved and agreed.
    This does not seem a bad time to return to the UK for treatment.
    Despite the pressures that the NHS is under, my experience as a cancer patient has been really positive, especially my treatment by my haematology team.
    Personally I would look to move to somewhere within reasonable travelling distance of a regional hospital. Bigger hospitals have more expertise and experience treating this rare cancer and are more likely to have opportunities to get access to drugs trials in the future. You could do worse than look for a consultant, then decide where to live accordingly!
    I hope your move back to UK is straightforward, you find somewhere nice to live and that your grandson responds well to his stem cell transplant.

    #147339

    tearose
    Participant

    Hello Mulberry

    Thank you so much for your good wishes for my grandson and for your positive and encouraging post about your treatment. The words ‘world class therapy’ are reassuring. and your confidence in Myeloma Support UK tells me that I have found the perfect forum.

    Being reasonably close to a big hospital is one of our criteria when it comes to looking for a house in the UK and so is being able to take part in drug trials which are so important, especially in the rare cancers. My husband will be more than happy to take part in them.

    All in all, I have had some great responses to my first post on here and I am feeling so much more positive about our move back now. Thank you.

    #147343

    kh0305
    Moderator

    Hi Tearose
    When dad was first diagnosed back in 2013 we had excellent support from the NHS which continued right through to his relapse in 2020. However things have been a bit up and down since covid hit – I don’t know if that is due to staff shortages/understaffing or a different hospital (although the consultant is the same) but it hasn’t been as good this time round. Saying that, we still get the treatments needed and are now getting more regular consultations. We have been offered drug trials before too.
    Good luck with he move and best wishes to your husband and grandson xx

    #147346

    tearose
    Participant

    Kho305

    Thank you for your reply and for your good wishes for my husband and my grandson. I am sorry that your dad relapsed but, sadly, we know that that is inevitable at some point with MM.

    I think Covid affected a lot of things in the medical world and it will take time to get things back to where they were before it struck. I am pleased that your dad is now getting more regular consultations and I hope that continues from now on.

    I wish you dad all the best. xx

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