Hi Kay,
Sorry to hear that you've joined all of us on here, but happy that you found us as it's a great site and you'll get loads of support.
I am 36 and was diagnosed, like you, by a random blood test, in July 09. Also like you, my hb kept dropping low while my paraprotein kept rising. Over the summer, the topic of treatment started to arise, and eventually I started on the Myeloma XI trial, 3 weeks ago, with the idea of 4 cycles of CRD (revlimid rather than thalidomide) and then possibly velcade (if I don't respond well) and then a SCT.
Try not to be too scared. I don't know if the revlimid has made the difference, but I have had really limited side effects on it….not even the Dex that everyone talks about! Where are you being treated? It might be worth asking about the trial and seeing if you can get on it? But even with CTD, I understand that for lots of people, you can carry on as normal. I am still working, still doing the everything for my 4 and 6 year old, and still running round manically for Christmas!!! I do get more tired sometimes, and have a horrid taste, but other than that….
Definitely join us on the Under 50 site too….so long as you don't mind slghtly ripe language! But most of us visit both sites so you'll find us anyway.
And if you want to talk things through with me, drop me a message….really happy to talk off the forum if you would prefer that.
Take care
Debs