HI Chrissie. I have just read your post, and it sounds as if you have been diagnosed at a very early stage. I am sure it was a terrible shock, but as time goes on you will find that there is a huge amount of support out there, and advice from friends on this site. I was diagnosed 2 years ago with MM and had quite severe symptoms. I was only 50, and like you, enjoying an active life without a thought that things might change. I now have a successful stem cell transplant behind me, and have really not given up anything in my life – apart from not working so hard!
You are now an extra special person, and you will find that you have wonderful family and friends who will rally round and support you.
The main advice I can offer is not to give up, do things today and not tomorrow, and keep smiling! The wonderful scientists are working on new cures every day, and there is a real chance that a permanent cure will be found for Myeloma.
Keep positive and keep smiling!
Chris