Dear Carol.
I hope you feel better today. I am taking a bit of a risk, but I thought I'd share a story about my Dad. He was an extreme practitioner of 'gallows humour" as you will see, but there is maybe a bit of inspiration in there as well.
I sat with him in front of a grim-faced Consultant, a nurse and a McMillan nurse to receive the results of a biopsy he had had on his lungs. The Consultant said what we had expected – you have lung cancer – and he began to put a series of questions to my Dad. Part of the questioning went thus:
Consultant- Do you smoke?
Dad- Yes I do.
Consultant- Have you smoked all your life?
Dad- No, I didn't start until I was 12.
:-0