Recent diagnosis October 2023

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    kar
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    My husband had sepsis back in March which resulted in him having to have dialysis because his kidneys failed. He came out of hospital after 6 weeks but never really got back to full health. He had constant blood tests to monitor his kidney levels and from these they found he was anaemic. Then in July he started getting bad back pain. The gp took a specific blood test which resulted in him having an appointment with haematologist. We were told he had multiple myeloma. What a shock! He had a bone biopsy and has just had first round of treatment Dara velcrade thalidomide and dexa. At the moment we feel our life is in limbo and he has been told not to socialise for fear of getting an infection. It feels like lockdown again. Is this how it will be throughout treatment? Any thoughts gratefully received.

    #148477

    12fern34
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    Hi I was diagnosed with MM 2 years ago I have received chemo same as your husband,I also had to isolate whilst having treatment.I was given stem cell treatment after 6 months of finishing chemo.I am now living an ordinary life and I am back to my previous life style.
    I hope this gives you both help.

    #148479

    kar
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    Thanks for your comment. It is great to hear from others having experienced the same.

    #148511

    spk2021
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    I’m sorry to hear of your husband’s experiences on the road to diagnosis.

    I started treatment in January (4×3 week cycles) before having a SCT in June. I’m now having consolidation treatment (I’m participating in a trial and on a high risk pathway).

    I don’t remember being told not to socialize (except for post-transplant until my blood counts improved), but I recall that I was cautious during my induction treatment, knowing that the treatment itself would cause my immunity to be more compromised than it already was. From September (when I was still in my 100 day post-SCT recovery period), I started to be a bit more relaxed and while still cautious, I became more inclined to throw caution to the wind. Unfortunately I ended up catching a bad cold virus from which I’m only just recovering nearly five weeks later! The bottom line is that it all depends on one’s attitude to risk and balancing that with enjoying life! Perhaps my visits to the sauna weren’t really advisable but it felt good at the time!

    There is definitely a lot of useful information to help guide you on the MUK website and it’s clear that many if not most people with MM do continue to live fulfilled lives. Adjustments have to be made, but sometimes they can actually turn out to be positive.

    Best of luck with the coming weeks.

    S

    #148512

    kar
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    Dear spk2021
    Thanks for taking the time to reply. It is interesting to read you are on a trial. We were given the info about a trial but consultant thought it best to start treatment immediately and it would take too much time to sign up for trial. Anyway he is just starting cycle 2.
    So what you are saying is it takes about 9 months to get through the treatment cycles and SCT.
    Glad it seems to have worked well so far for you. Long may it last.

    #148515

    spk2021
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    Dear Kar

    I suppose it depends what treatment your husband is having and whether all goes according to plan. By that I mean I missed a week of induction treatment when my liver function was a bit dodgy, and lately missed two weeks because of a cold virus. But in my case, I had 4×3 week cycles of induction treatment followed by SC harvesting a few weeks later, then a break of a few weeks before my SCT, which was followed by a 100 day recovery period. Then I went pretty much straight into the consolidation treatment (after all the usual tests) and am half way through that. In total, this first line of treatment will have taken a year.

    Best wishes

    Shelagh

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